"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Random girls in bars come up and ask to take pictures?

dopexile

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2006
Messages
87
Reaction score
1
Location
St. Louis, MO
How do you men handle these situations? I had a cool t-shirt on and had a lot of women coming up asking me if they could take a picture with me... I told them that I charge for my pictures and they would have to pay up front... but they were often pushy about it... and before I could do anything they were taking it. This happened 3 times and I was caught a bit off guard.

And I ended up getting way too drunk to make anything happen but had a lot of fun.

Do you guys allow this? Is it better to refuse to take the picture and make things on your terms? Is there a better line to hit them with?
 
Last edited:

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
put your hand on her ass while she's having it taken.
 

lookyoung

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2006
Messages
1,303
Reaction score
36
Location
Chicago
hey

What kind of shirt did you have on? And if it was me I would say what is in it for me? And than if they respond with what do you want than ask them for a kiss. Do this in a confident manner. You will be surprised how many woman will probably kiss you.
 

decades

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 3, 2004
Messages
1,223
Reaction score
35
Location
sf ca
I would say that you have some thinking to do on this.
 

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Mystery addresses this saying that he would Never be used as a tool to take their picture. He'd just turn his back and start talking to someone else.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

dopexile

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2006
Messages
87
Reaction score
1
Location
St. Louis, MO
lookyoung said:
What kind of shirt did you have on? And if it was me I would say what is in it for me? And than if they respond with what do you want than ask them for a kiss. Do this in a confident manner. You will be surprised how many woman will probably kiss you.
I had an electronic shirt I bought in europe when I was doing some business travel. It has a battery pack and animation and flashes and glows in the dark... definitely got a lot of attention.
 

DismantleRepair

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2007
Messages
113
Reaction score
1
Location
New Zealand
Make the most of it, and get something in return, like a drink or a kiss. And they approached you, so it should be easy to talk to them (now, later) if you want.
 
Top