Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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random girl knocking my door. how would you of handled it?

LoneWolf

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it happened a couple of months ago but i cant help wonder what if. so one afternoon i get a knock on the door. its a young girl. i think she was 16. she asked the time then asked if she could use my internet to use facebook and message someone because she was meant to meet her guy friend. i lied and said i didnt have any but suggested to use my iphone. so i didnt want her using my phone at the door step. she could of run off with it. so she ended up staying in my house for two hours. now i was cooking dinner as well. i didnt think much of it at the time anyway. she kicked her heels off and used my phone non stop on facebook. question. would you of tried anything? she was young so that kinda put me off plus i was also dating someone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Please tell me you're joking. You didn't really let a 16 year old child hang out with you alone for 2 hours, did you? Are you aware of what could go wrong? She could leave and say ANYTHING. I think I might be troll feeding here. This is too outlandish to be real.
 

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I have a real hard time believing any of your stories you tell especially this one. No young girl is going to knock on some strange guys door to ask you for the time. Little lone come inside to use facebook and sit with you for hours to be alone with you. That does not happen. I also have a hard tme believing a guy who keeps getting dumped by women all the time then finding a new one always as quick as you do. That doesn't happen either. I've read your stories. You're not telling the truth here.



Atom Smasher said:
Please tell me you're joking. You didn't really let a 16 year old child hang out with you alone for 2 hours, did you? Are you aware of what could go wrong? She could leave and say ANYTHING. I think I might be troll feeding here. This is too outlandish to be real.
Most of his stories are. I do not believe anything he says about this.

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LoneWolf said:
it happened a couple of months ago but i cant help wonder what if. so one afternoon i get a knock on the door. its a young girl. i think she was 16. she asked the time then asked if she could use my internet to use facebook and message someone because she was meant to meet her guy friend. i lied and said i didnt have any but suggested to use my iphone. so i didnt want her using my phone at the door step. she could of run off with it. so she ended up staying in my house for two hours. now i was cooking dinner as well. i didnt think much of it at the time anyway. she kicked her heels off and used my phone non stop on facebook. question. would you of tried anything? she was young so that kinda put me off plus i was also dating someone.

He says a couple months ago when he was dating someone in his first post


he then goes on to say this below


i sh1t you not, a girl came over my house on wednesday afternoon, it was wet and rainy and she was 16 years old. she looked a bit fuked in the head anyway. she did resist coming inside for like 2 seconds but came in anyway. i even told her she should never knock on doors randomly like that and come into the house. i told her she's lucky i was a nice guy. i let her use my phone while i was cooking my dinner, she left about 2 hours later or less and met her friend outside my house and that was that/

My response:

So now a couple months ago turns into last wednesday. He says his girlfriend dumped him last sunday. He was not dating her when this event he claims happened. So he is not telling the truth in his first posting. I replied to his thread twice on that one. He didn't listen to what I told him to do.

I think he is making this up as he goes along. That is what happens when you don't tell the truth. You get caught in lies.
 

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I would have tried "sending her the phone bill".
 

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wow i didn't expect this. all my threads are real believe it or not i don't care. i can assure you i am not trolling and never have. i can see how it's hard to believe this but i don't live in a great neighborhood and most the people here are a bit weird. anyway, it is true 100% and even i was a bit shocked.

i sh1t you not, a girl came over my house on a wednesday afternoon, it was wet and rainy and she was 16 years old. she looked a bit fuked in the head anyway. she did resist coming inside for like 2 seconds but came in anyway. i even told her she should never knock on doors randomly like that and come into the house. i told her she's lucky i was a nice guy. i let her use my phone while i was cooking my dinner, she left about 2 hours later or less and met her friend outside my house and that was that. i am not lying but i can't force you to believe it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't let that happen again.

She sounds like some Ho who needed a phone to get a hold of her Pimp!

But, to answer your question. Whether you would try anything or not is purely up to you and if you thought about it. You better make sure she is of age.
 

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Fred_Scuttle said:
He says a couple months ago when he was dating someone in his first post


he then goes on to say this below


i sh1t you not, a girl came over my house on wednesday afternoon, it was wet and rainy and she was 16 years old. she looked a bit fuked in the head anyway. she did resist coming inside for like 2 seconds but came in anyway. i even told her she should never knock on doors randomly like that and come into the house. i told her she's lucky i was a nice guy. i let her use my phone while i was cooking my dinner, she left about 2 hours later or less and met her friend outside my house and that was that/

My response:

So now a couple months ago turns into last wednesday. He says his girlfriend dumped him last sunday. He was not dating her when this event he claims happened. So he is not telling the truth in his first posting. I replied to his thread twice on that one. He didn't listen to what I told him to do.

I think he is making this up as he goes along. That is what happens when you don't tell the truth. You get caught in lies.
why are you trying so hard to make me out as a liar? i never said last wednesday, i said on wednesday afternoon. i meant 2 months ago wednesday afternoon. i'll edit the post if it makes you happy?
 

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LoneWolf said:
wow i didn't expect this. all my threads are real believe it or not i don't care. i can assure you i am not trolling and never have. i can see how it's hard to believe this but i don't live in a great neighborhood and most the people here are a bit weird. anyway, it is true 100% and even i was a bit shocked.

i sh1t you not, a girl came over my house on wednesday afternoon, it was wet and rainy and she was 16 years old. she looked a bit fuked in the head anyway. she did resist coming inside for like 2 seconds but came in anyway. i even told her she should never knock on doors randomly like that and come into the house. i told her she's lucky i was a nice guy. i let her use my phone while i was cooking my dinner, she left about 2 hours later or less and met her friend outside my house and that was that. i am not lying but i can't force you to believe it.
****ty troll is ****ty
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fred_Scuttle said:
I have a real hard time believing any of your stories you tell especially this one. No young girl is going to knock on some strange guys door to ask you for the time. Little lone come inside to use facebook and sit with you for hours to be alone with you. That does not happen. I also have a hard tme believing a guy who keeps getting dumped by women all the time then finding a new one always as quick as you do. That doesn't happen either. I've read your stories. You're not telling the truth here.





Most of his stories are. I do not believe anything he says about this.

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He says a couple months ago when he was dating someone in his first post


he then goes on to say this below


i sh1t you not, a girl came over my house on wednesday afternoon, it was wet and rainy and she was 16 years old. she looked a bit fuked in the head anyway. she did resist coming inside for like 2 seconds but came in anyway. i even told her she should never knock on doors randomly like that and come into the house. i told her she's lucky i was a nice guy. i let her use my phone while i was cooking my dinner, she left about 2 hours later or less and met her friend outside my house and that was that/

My response:

So now a couple months ago turns into last wednesday. He says his girlfriend dumped him last sunday. He was not dating her when this event he claims happened. So he is not telling the truth in his first posting. I replied to his thread twice on that one. He didn't listen to what I told him to do.

I think he is making this up as he goes along. That is what happens when you don't tell the truth. You get caught in lies.

read his one about his foreign trip he was gonna go on lol

this is fake

I had a hot 40 year old woman knock on my door yesterday. she asked me if she could my computer to look at match.com. today there was 3 college girls knock at my door. they wanted to use plenty of fish LMAO

the question is why would you ask a question like this? you need help. we will see you on dateline sometime lol
 

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just wanted to see what other guys would do in this situation. i seriously don't know why some of you think i'm lying. i'm not lying about any of my stories.

about the other story. i never went on the trip because after all the advice i got, it opened my eyes a bit. it was just too weird so i told her i wasn't gonna go ahead with it. i still talk to her often and she is planning to come visit this year sometime.

again, i don't expect anyone to believe me but it's not fake.
 
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