"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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S.Y.L

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Now, this sounds retarded, but lets just say your doing something like, holding hands with a chick and walking, and you just happen to get a boner.

Will they care?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saturos

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Hopefully they won't even notice, because i don't envision them looking at your crotch as you hold hands?
But if they do, they most likely won't say a thing or care, and moreover, you shouldn't get an instant boner that is super noticeable. Try to control it?
 

S.Y.L

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When I need to take a piss, I dunno, my **** acts up lol
 

dbot

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distract her somehow, then do the uptuck :p
 

Five To One

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Like dbot said, Uptuck is key.

And practice makes perfect.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's-Me

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Why the hell do you care if you have an erection? If you act like you don't give a fvck about it, than they won't care.
 
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