"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sneevox

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I've been abstaining from fapping and looking at porn, and I just took a nap.

When I was napping, I had a dream I was looking at porn and fapping. I even jizzed in the dream.

What the fvck?

Has this happened to anyone else?


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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scars

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If you don't "fap" your body will go by other means to release itself (wet dreams). That's why I think these "no fap challenge" threads etc are ridiculous, it's perfectly healthy for you, and if you don't do it yourself, your body will.

-Scars
 

NobodyCares1

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I did, I even had a dream that a girl gave me *******. I jizzed in my dream but not in real life though.
 

backbreaker

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it's actually a tell tale sign of addiction.

in drug recovery they teach you about how this is gonna happen. we called them dope dreams... for me personally i would do everything in the dream but get high. make the call, go over someone's house, make the stem, look out the window for the guy coming with the dope, the whole bit. but every time i'd get ready to get high i'd wake up, and you could damn near taste it.

it ****s a lot of people up beucase you think you are doing something wrong if you are still thinking/dreaming that vilely about it, but that's quite normal. while you personally understand the need to get off of porn/fapping, your body does not give a **** lol. your body is used to doing something and getting a certain pleasurable reaction rom that something, and it wants it back. lol your body literally wants you to relapse.

i've been clean from drugs since 2005, and i still have them. not often at all, maybe 1-2 times a year but i get them. same with jacking off though i admit i do fap a few times a month for various reasons. maybe a particular porno i want to watch or the wife's time or the month or whatever.
 

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HAHA I have these kinds of dreams all the time since I stopped fapping...Its crazy and kind of fun
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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