"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Random adds on FB

NiceBarn

Don Juan
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Do any of you get adds on Facebook from women you recognize, but hardly know? I usually just ignore, but this one recently added me and I'm not sure what to say. I think she works at my gym, but she's part time and I rarely see her. I may have said hey like one time, not even flirty. You think there is interest or is she just a friend collector?

I know I could just make small talk, but my game sucks and could use something funny to say. It's just strange when I don't know them. Of course I'm only asking because she's hot!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Julian

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dude its not that serious just message her whats up lets hang out. see what the hoe says if shes down shes down if not f it.
 
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