Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Merits of doing this aside....Your only play is to stay NC. NC generally doesn't win you back your ex but it is usually the only way you can do that - even if it is just to bang.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I can agree with this but I'll add that you'll lose the battle by giving her the validation she wants but it's likely you'll win the war.
I will run into her since our city is big but not that big. If she comes in my space again I’ll chat her up and see what happens. I don’t think she will reach out since she’s toxic and we had a big argument where she thinks I have to apologize. I think that’s my best bet to fvck her.
It takes a lot of game. Especially if she’s toxic. OP has to be ruthless.
Definitely don’t reach out. If she does, or you see her out, you gotta play hard ball and reel her in. She’s already doing it with antics she pulled at the bar. Push/pull. Confidence/Indifference. If it works and you bring her home, go complete ghost after
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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