We dated for 3 years..ended up breaking up when her ex BF drove down to my state uninvited and her parents "made" her go to dinner with him ( I was invited but refused to go)..shortly after she called it quits to pursue "more time on her on". I found out she was talking to the EX..so I called her and told her we were done for good and I was moving on (started dating a new girl 3 weeks later) She found out and was furious..told lies about me to her family/friends..
At the time I worked for her father's business as well as a friend of mine (when we broke up, I resigned and friend kept working there) Her Ex and her got back together and he took my job at the family business. My friend eventually quit but his younger brother took his job...
Fast forward to yesterday evening ( She is now engaged to be married to the EX btw) My friend's brother (who works for my Ex's father) was in the ER with life threatening complications. I gave my friend a ride to see his brother ..and sure enough...My ex, her family, and her new fiance/his family..all showed up in the surgery waiting room. Literally they all about Sh1t themselves when they saw me. I have bulked up a ton in 2 1/2 years...we rushed from the gym so I was still in a cut off etc. I saw my ex sneaking a look at me (still didn't say a word), her fiance refused to look at me..her mom and dad both talked to me. Overall it was a very awkward situation for me. I want to beat the sh1t out of her fiance but due to the place/setting I kept my cool and talked to her parents as if nothing ever happened.
My questions is do you think I could have handled this any better? If a similar situation occurs again..should I do the same..keep up the NC unless I literally have no choice but to talk to her? Thanks in advance
At the time I worked for her father's business as well as a friend of mine (when we broke up, I resigned and friend kept working there) Her Ex and her got back together and he took my job at the family business. My friend eventually quit but his younger brother took his job...
Fast forward to yesterday evening ( She is now engaged to be married to the EX btw) My friend's brother (who works for my Ex's father) was in the ER with life threatening complications. I gave my friend a ride to see his brother ..and sure enough...My ex, her family, and her new fiance/his family..all showed up in the surgery waiting room. Literally they all about Sh1t themselves when they saw me. I have bulked up a ton in 2 1/2 years...we rushed from the gym so I was still in a cut off etc. I saw my ex sneaking a look at me (still didn't say a word), her fiance refused to look at me..her mom and dad both talked to me. Overall it was a very awkward situation for me. I want to beat the sh1t out of her fiance but due to the place/setting I kept my cool and talked to her parents as if nothing ever happened.
My questions is do you think I could have handled this any better? If a similar situation occurs again..should I do the same..keep up the NC unless I literally have no choice but to talk to her? Thanks in advance
