"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ran into my old one itis

ye yeah

Don Juan
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Hey,after a long fight and an ended on really bad terms friendship with my ex girlfriend and my old one itis... i ran into them both tonight,they both stopped and my old one itis initiated all the talking,and did a bit of small talk and i felt awkward as after the stuff i said to them,being not friends that..

and i had to go really shortly after,so it was kinda cut short.. we all used to hang out heaps,they both have boy friends now...

i would like to be friends with them,(ID NEVER fall for her again) i can guarantee that.. but what i wanna know is.. do i make the first step now to say "hey wanna be friends again?" that kinda thing... like do I? or just leave it? it got pretty damn heated,so im surpised they even spoke to me at all
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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