"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ran into my old one itis

ye yeah

Don Juan
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Hey,after a long fight and an ended on really bad terms friendship with my ex girlfriend and my old one itis... i ran into them both tonight,they both stopped and my old one itis initiated all the talking,and did a bit of small talk and i felt awkward as after the stuff i said to them,being not friends that..

and i had to go really shortly after,so it was kinda cut short.. we all used to hang out heaps,they both have boy friends now...

i would like to be friends with them,(ID NEVER fall for her again) i can guarantee that.. but what i wanna know is.. do i make the first step now to say "hey wanna be friends again?" that kinda thing... like do I? or just leave it? it got pretty damn heated,so im surpised they even spoke to me at all
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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