Ramping up those numbers!!

[Dr. Feelgood]

whats up guys. just got out of this fling with a girl and realized i have this issue. most of the chicks i see have banged more dudes than i have banged chicks. so i dont like this.

idk what the best thing to do here is. i think im insecure cuz its so much easier for chicks to get sex than for dudes so as a guy i want to demonstrate i can get sex. ive had sex with 3 chicks and oral from a 4th. thats not much.

should i try and get my number up or is this something not to get concerned about.

 

[Dr. Feelgood]

pairplus, i dont know man... ya, like obviously you want some chick that hasnt been run around town, if you know what i mean. ive lurked here a while and read pook and the dj bible and a lot of rollos stuff. shouldnt a dude who is a man be able to demonstrate sexual dominance because he banged a lot of chicks?

if you have a low number doesnt that say something about you just the same way a high number would. especially if youre with some chick who has gotten it more than you. it basically means shes got higher sexual market value. when youve only banged 3 chicks and youre in your 30s, do you think theres gonna be a lot of chicks who have banged less than 3 guys? you get what i'm saying???

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Please don't feed the trolls.

 

[disgustipated]

You wanna exert sexual dominance over a woman? Stay with one for awhile, listen to her body...really pay attention to how she responds to certain things. Over time you SHOULD be in tune to what she needs and what gets her off. The best sex I've ever had was within the confines of a relationship and that's because we were so familiar with each other.

Your number or her number has absolutely nothing to do with dominance or anything else. Now of course you don't want your LTR to be the town cumdumpster, but that's what screening is for. Other than that her number, whether larger or smaller, should have no bearing on whether you're able to please her over time.

 

[Dr. Feelgood]

much thanks dudes. except to mantis. who did not give any constructive advice.

 

[Nutz]

whats up guys. just got out of this fling with a girl and realized i have this issue. most of the chicks i see have banged more dudes than i have banged chicks. so i dont like this.

idk what the best thing to do here is. i think im insecure cuz its so much easier for chicks to get sex than for dudes so as a guy i want to demonstrate i can get sex. ive had sex with 3 chicks and oral from a 4th. thats not much.

should i try and get my number up or is this something not to get concerned about.

I talked to a female friend of mine about this once and she admitted she'd be put off by a guy with a lower number than she'd expect him to have, which would of course vary based on his age. Her line of thinking was "what's wrong with this guy if he can't get laid?" Basically it was the exact opposite of preselection.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dr Feelgood,
Seems Mantis has got you sussed out!

 

[Mike32ct]

I know how you feel. I'm your age and only at 7. (I could have easily been over 10, but I messed up some opportunities in the past due to inexperience at the time.)

But really, it shouldn't matter because your number is all ego-based. You shouldn't be revealing your number to females anyway.

Finally, don't even TRY to compete with females on number of lays. Most men will NEVER have the sexual power women have. If I were a chick, I'd be too sore to walk lol.

 

[zekko]

I agree with PairPlusRoyalFlush. Your thinking on this is entirely backwards. A woman's value goes DOWN with the more sexual partners that she has. As for your own value, lie if you have to. And this coming from someone who believes in honesty. There's nothing to be gained from her thinking you're inexperienced. Like Nutz says, it's like the opposite of preselection.

If she questions your technique (or lack of it), just tell her you're a little tipsy

 

[DJ SO STEVE]

Fake it till you make it