"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ralphie has a girl why don't you???

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'd hit her. She's got the Jennifer Connelly eyes going on. Solid 8. About the lowest that I'll put major effort into though.
 
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S1nn3r you should take her away from him...........JK

he would whip your azz and eat you.:kick:

I think she is all face and NO body.
 
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I'm little but I'm quick. He wouldn't stand a chance. But they're in LA or Houston, I guess. Sh!t, I get 13MPG on the highway and have to use premium. She'd have to be an HB11 to be worth that trip.
 
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I'm sure she performs in Vagas.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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But back on topic, where are the guys saying that no ugly guys can get hot chicks? Hell in his profile pic, he looks like a bull-dyke! He doesn't seem to be rich, just another comedian.

If she's not out of his league, no one is out of anyone's.....

I'm sure she performs in Vagas.
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I checked, not anytime soon. I'll keep her in mind though. She's got to hit the airport here sometime. :D
 
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But back on topic, where are the guys saying that no ugly guys can get hot chicks? Hell in his profile pic, he looks like a bull-dyke! He doesn't seem to be rich, just another comedian.
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I checked, not anytime soon. I'll keep her in mind though. She's got to hit the airport here sometime. :D
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Exactly. I posted that to give all of the guys who feel too ugly or too fat or too whatever. Here's a 454lb man that has a decently attractive girl.

If that doesn't give you hope......:nono:
 
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Did no one bother to read this guys profile? He is a famous Comedian, the guy is basicly a celeb, hes rich and famous! Could that not help explain it.
 
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And so is she. Anything that he's got in life, she appears to have as well, so it's doesn't seem like she would be with him gold-digging or whatever. She has her own life and fame.

So why is she with him instead of somebody enev mildly physically attractive instead of him?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Conclusion: Personality trumps looks. Period.
 
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How much you want to bet this chick has some d1ck on the side?
 
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These threads on looks never work, society has stamped into people’s head that all the attractive people get everything. They have given the people this illusion and people ate it up, society in general doesn’t want people to succeed because society works well when people don't succeed. The economy of western countries thrives when people are depressed, they want people to work all their lives provide for the economy and die. That’s why advertising is packed with attractive people, first they make us think if you are not attractive you have no chance than they show attractive people wearing Nike so you go wear Nike.

Society has stamped these beliefs into people’s heads from when they were kids; they are so set in their ways that it won’t change now. So if you choose to argue with these people that say looks are the only things that matter it will be like talking to a brick wall.
 
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That is so true Angelus. I saw something on CNN's entertainment show about how people want to see average people in commercials and on TV. The guy also mentioned that there is retrosexual rebuttal to all thaty metrosexual BS. The guy claimed that the majority of the people in america don't live the life of the people on sex in city because most americans live in suburban areas and have values that differ from what we see on tv.

I think that looking your best is great, but having a winning personality is also important.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yea this dude was on Last Comic Standing a couple years ago. If you've heard of Dat Phan, they were both on the same episode. I was surprised it took a while for somebody to bring that up.

And yes, the girl doesn't look that tight.
 
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