Raising your buying temperature

[Fash]

Ok... something has happened to me recently that has made me think back to the title of one of chapters in The Game. Something about Buying Temperature.

I have lots of female "friends". Some of them are FWBs, some are genuinly just friends, some are friends which I have been trying to turn into FWBs (Friends With Benefits). I have been successful on some occasions and not so successful on other occasions.

I have recently met someone really amazing. I mean she really really is amazing, I haven't posted about her because she could be the future Mrs. Fash. Anyway, I recently decided to tell these female "friends" of mine of this.

I told them about her, how we met, why I like her so much, how much she likes me, and sent a couple of photos to some of them...

Much to my surprise, all the "friends" that I had not been able to covert to FWBs have now become very much interested!

WTF?????????

I mean they keep calling, they want to see me, and one of them even said "I have to test you to see if you will cheat on her or not. So why don't you come over to mine for dinner????"

Also, some of them have become quite weird and have been trying to change my mind about this new chick and get with me and so on...

It is strange, because these are the girls that "I" was making the effort to get with, and now THEY are chasing ME!

Unfortunately, I have decided to stay faithful to this girl. So I wont be tapping any of the newly interested ass.

Points to take away:

Sometimes, if you get stuck in situations where the girls are not really committing, or kinda keeping you on ice, make your self unavailable to them.

People always want what they can't have!

 

[Thomas94305]

Yaaaa.. I've noticed how women respond if you have another woman. It's posted elsewhere, this is some form of your "social proof", etc. Women are wired to think MORE of you when you have someone else.

I've gone dancing.. gotten a number from a woman.. and if I then dance with someone else in front of her (done this without thinking), the number woman is far more likely to be into me. It works like a charm. When I call the number woman, she remembers, does not flake, etc.

If I see a woman I'm interested in flirting with another guy.. in front of me, I tend to next her. I don't need that stuff in my life. A woman's economy is different...

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Haha. Fash, good work lad. Now, seeing as you're only 24, I suggest you start tapping as many of them as possible.

Don't bother getting into a longterm relationship if you're only 24, you'll only look back on your life at 29 and kick yourself for it.

 

[Fash]

Thats just it. I no longer have the urge to be tapping random ass. I mean I have come to the realisation that you can tap as much ass you want, but what are you left with in the end?

We spend so much time and effort trying to nail HBs. My idea is, if you have the HB of your dreams by your side, then you can spend all that time and energy on trying to become successful in your career, family life, etc... Things that mean something.

 

[typical]

It's your life bro as long as you dont turn into a afc with her do what you want with it.