"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Raising Interest Through "Words With Friends"

JimmyMack

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This is something I've been using recently and wanted to share:

The phone scrabble app "Words With Friends" has been an interesting way to take things slow while steadily keeping or raising interest.

I'm working under the premise that most women love being competitive while also proving their intelligence; this game does both.

Generally, during the first date I'll find out if she plays and then make a few ****y, funny negs about her not being able to keep up. It's great because every time you make a move you'll pop into her head like a text but w/o any potential disaster of saying the wrong thing. Also, you can text w/in the game so you can continue to talk **** and fire her up. Another move (if you choose to go this direction) is that there is a cheat app that is usable w/o the other player knowing. Make a bet that the loser buys drinks next time, cooks dinner, gives oral, whatever.

Lastly if there are a few dates that slowly lose interest it can be a good way to try fishing them back - start a game with the message "have you gotten any better yet?" and I've found they usually bite.

Lemme know how it goes!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ecko280

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this is really bad. If its working for you, then great.

I just wont wast my time doing this.
 

Cozmo

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How could this work without showing that you're sitting around playing games on your phone?
 
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