raised by a single mother

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by hartwell
Just don't blame all on the young girls i see older women repeating the same thing over and over again. Some people never learn. Of course i believe you when you say that women are looking for more than just someone taking care of them. However bout the time they got it figured out most of them are in their mid thirties and with baggage and kids up to the ceiling that they are no longer cream of the crop for dj's and therefore are passed along for better talent.

Yep, some older women repeat the same unhealthy cycle over and over again too...and so do men. Neither gender has cornered the market on running very unhealthy patterns in their relationships.

The good thing is this...as soon as a person realizes, acknowledges and admits they have been doing it, making the changes necessary to actually have good, healthy relationships is pretty easy. The hardest part is being able to admit it. That's the problem with about 95% of the guys here. It's not that they are "AFC" or didn't follow some stupid rules or tactics. They're just attracted to sh*tty people. I've seen most of the guys on here run the same patterns over and over again and they keep wondering why they get screwed over or don't find a good person. It's because they are attracted to the bad ones JUST like so many women are. I snicker to myself EVERY time I see a guy complain about women being attracted to guys who treat them bad because the day before or after the same damn guy will be complaining about being treated badly by some girl he is with or trying to get with. Talk about irony...

 

[hartwell]

The guys here make the same mistakes women do...they go for women who hurt them.

You said a mouthful there oh so true with some men but i think a lot of women who seem to have way more experienced in that subject :crackup:

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by hartwell
You said a mouthful there oh so true with some men but i think a lot of women who seem to have way more experienced in that subject :crackup:

No, they don't have any more experience than the guys do. The fact that sites like this exist is proof that men are just as bad as women...if not worse. I've seen many men get involved with the worst women imaginable just for sex. Women won't get involved with a jerk just for sex...she usually wants to "fix" him.

Honestly...it's equal...neither sex is better or worse. The sooner you understand that the better off you'll be.

 

[hartwell]

No, they don't have any more experience than the guys do. The fact that sites like this exist is proof that men are just as bad as women...if not worse. I've seen many men get involved with the worst women imaginable just for sex. Women won't get involved with a jerk just for sex...she usually wants to "fix" him.

This is a hidden site you can count on one hand how many man sites or magazines there are about men whereas there are popular sites and magazines everywhere about women bashing men.