RAFC needs some advice

[Yoson]

In my math class there is a HB9 who tries to make eye contact with me all day long during lecture(btw shes been doing this for a month. I'm surprised she still continues to do this), but ive never acted on it cause I was intimidated by her looks and also i was an afc. But now since i am an rafc, i want rectify this mistake.

Yes, I know how to do the usual cold approach, but since ive waited so long to do this, she gotta think im really shy at this point, or I dont like her . So I need some kind of C/F approach that will make her respect me. And I can handle the rest. Oh yeah, I dont want to seem like ive been plotting this for months .

Anyone got any ideas for a classroom setting? Shes HB9

 

[sux2bu]

The next time you catch her staring your way, tell her this: "Hey, take a picture.. it'll last longer."

 

[BGD]

I think this is from DD:

"Excuse me, but I couldn't help notice you staring at me"

 

[Yoson]

Originally posted by sux2bu
The next time you catch her staring your way, tell her this: "Hey, take a picture.. it'll last longer."

LOL, i dont think that will work, shes does this from across a huge classroom that holds like 90 ppl.

 

[E-Z Rider]

Don't try anything too fancy; at this point you're bound to fvck it up.

Forget about the past. Pretend she's never even seen you before.

The important thing for you as an RAFC right now is not the quality of your approache so much, as just the fact that you approach her at all.

This just needs to be casual. If you can sit by her when you walk into lecture (arriving a little late, maybe) just casually and confidently take a seat next to her. Then introduce yourself, "Hi, I'm Yoson, what's your name?". Talk to her some, but for the most of class, appear intent on the lecture, taking notes, etc. Make a remark about something the proffesor says once in a while. Look her directly in the eye, with a kind of vague smile, anytime you speak to her.

Then, as you are ready to leave:. Get up and walk with her to the door of lecture, chatting about something, the lecture, TV, whatever. As you get out of the door, say "it was nice meeting you, HB9. Tell you what, give me your number and we'll have to hang out sometime." Remember to have a pencil and paper handy, and to look her directly in the eyes with a semi-smile (debonair, if you will), when you tell her to write down her number. This is critical. If you do all of this smoothly and confidently, you're pretty much guaranteed to get a number.

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I'd take the above as a suggestion. Look at it and other people's advice, and add your own imput into it. Remember throughout that the absolute MOST important thing is that you go through with it, regardless of whether she blows you off or not.

That said, good luck- -E-Z

 

[Walden]

Originally posted by sux2bu
The next time you catch her staring your way, tell her this: "Hey, take a picture.. it'll last longer."

C+F baby C+F

 

[Yoson]

Originally posted by Yoson
In my math class there is a HB9 who tries to make eye contact with me all day long during lecture(btw shes been doing this for a month. I'm surprised she still continues to do this), but ive never acted on it cause I was intimidated by her looks and also i was an afc. But now since i am an rafc, i want rectify this mistake.

Yes, I know how to do the usual cold approach, but since ive waited so long to do this, she gotta think im really shy at this point, or I dont like her . So I need some kind of C/F approach that will make her respect me. And I can handle the rest. Oh yeah, I dont want to seem like ive been plotting this for months .

Anyone got any ideas for a classroom setting? Shes HB9

I forgot to mention that shes in the class with 3 other gfs. Does that change anything? Also i'm wondering if i should just become friends with them just to get exprience around females. Bad idea right? I should try to hook up with hb9

 

[E-Z Rider]

Well, being friends with hot chicks isn't a bad thing at all , as long as you don't 'like' them and aren't their emotional tampon. They are good social-proof, and can be a gateway to lots of other hot chicks.

So, I'd still advise you to go for the number. But...if you don 't get it for whatever reason, you could just keep talking to her and become friends. It won't hurt you unless you like her.

-E-Z

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Next time you catch her staring at you, just wink and smile at her. If you get a positive sign from her, put your hand up to your head as if you were holding a telephone receiver and mouth the words, "Give me your telephone number after class."

Either she will catch up with you after class to give you her number or she will head off with her girlfriends. Worse case scenario is that she leaves, if she does you do not need to waste you time wondering anymore.

 

[Knicknack]

point at her 1st GF in the class and say you are my Tuesday girl, point to the 2nd one and declare her your Wednesday girl, the 3rd your thurs girl, and the one that is staring at you in your friday girl. saturday is for all the girls at once.

if you said this where everyone could hear you, you would be the talk of the school.

 

[Yoson]

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Next time you catch her staring at you, just wink and smile at her. If you get a positive sign from her, put your hand up to your head as if you were holding a telephone receiver and mouth the words, "Give me your telephone number after class."

Either she will catch up with you after class to give you her number or she will head off with her girlfriends. Worse case scenario is that she leaves, if she does you do not need to waste you time wondering anymore.

I know this is good advice. But i guess i just think i need to be saying something else, since she probably thinks im a ***** for taking so long. Or maybe its the afc in me trying to rise up.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Yoson
I know this is good advice. But i guess i just think i need to be saying something else, since she probably thinks im a ***** for taking so long. Or maybe its the afc in me trying to rise up.

Yep, it's AFC. Who cares how long you've taken if she is still interested???? Unless you can go back in time and change it, you're wasting your time worrying about it.

Either find out if she is really interested or forget about it and leave her alone.