"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Radical Honesty - Brad Blanton

ChrizZ

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ChrizZ said:
I got a new hero. I'll devote my life to become like this guy lol.

Although he is a fat white trash redneck he has balls. I'll implement radical honesty into my life and I recommend everyone else to do the same.

Here is an article about the author:

http://www.esquire.com/features/honesty0707

here is the book:

http://www.amazon.com/Radical-Honesty-New-Revised-Transform/dp/0970693842/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1230108360&sr=8-1
Sounds extremely interesting - He himself sounds like a fascinating fellow also! :D


I'm guessing you've already implemented this....

So how has it been going for you so far? ;)
 

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This is highly interesting.. honestly. I've always wondered what things would be like if everyone was 100% truthful. I'm curious to know how this is going for you, ChrizZ, although I think you might have given it up by now judging by the lack of reply (but I'd probably give it up too cause I'm still battling with insecurities which would prevent me from being 100% truthful in social situations).

..that felt good, by the way
 

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Law 12 of Power

Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm your Victim

You should be honest every now and then not 100 percent of the time. I wish this wasn't true but in reality being 100 honest will not excel you for long now a days.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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People forget what you do and what you say, but they never forget how your actions and speech made them feel. For the most part, feelings have a greater imperative than facts and it's about evaluating fairness against correctness. While I have a well-deserved reputation on here for debating people over mistaken beliefs and within debates it's understood nothing is personal, in my ordinary routine I don't go around nitpicking people or picking fights. I am generally a very open and candid guy, and I once went through the phase of being "radically honest," but rest assured being "radically honest" will only do more harm than good, in the long run. Think about how to lose friends and alienate people. I advise not only be selectively honest, but say less than necessary. Furthermore, moreover, you can convey and confer disagreements with tactful diplomacy without being offensive, a point totally lost upon Brad Blanton (see his website - radicalhonesty.com).

Brad Blanton is no paragon of civility nor society, truth be told. He is rude, crude, and I always find it despicable how some people try to reframe vices as virtues. When you are a "fat white trash redneck" who incoherently rambles and incessantly spews vulgarities, has a history of arrests for violence (see his website), then whatever company held must conceivably be comparatively small and being at the bottom has nowhere further down to go. Plus, his theory is just wrong.
 
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