"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rackin some girls up before school is over, list your best techniques.

SoonToBeDJ

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Well everyone school is almost finished and everyone is starting to get real happy in school, the attitude is better, like always in summer. Since school is about to end it's also time to close out the girls you've been DJ'ing or wanting to DJ but haven't got the chance. Does anyone have any cool techniques to get some girls before school ends? Something along the lines of "School is almost over so why don't you give me your phone number so we can chill some time?" That's just an example, I just want to know what are some good techniques used by you guys that have worked for you.

I currently am talking to this HB8 in school, she is in one of my classes and I am trying to DJ her. There's one problem... I don't know if she has a bf, when ever I see her she gives me a big smile and a waves and says hi, probably because I have been talking to her more lately. I know not to ask the stupid "do you have a bf question" it's just that a while I heard she did or knew so I kinda stayed away but she just mentioned to me something about some exbf or something I don't know. She always walks with a guy from her car in the parking lot but they are never close or anything so now I am thinking if that is her brother. Any tips on #closing this girl before school ends?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ice Cold

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Throw a bbq at the end of the year and invite as many people as you can. Ask girls for numbers. Talk to them about what they're gonna do in the summer. Leave your number in the girl's yearbooks...
 

SoonToBeDJ

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Throw a bbq at the end of the year and invite as many people as you can. Ask girls for numbers. Talk to them about what they're gonna do in the summer. Leave your number in the girl's yearbooks...
Does leaving your number in girls year books really work?
 

Sexual

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Giving a girl your number no matter in what situation will never work unless there is attraction (mental or physical), or an incentive to get something out of you like a homework assignment.

As for getting those numbers from girls, be aggressive and just approach them no matter what the situation. What do you have to lose after all, it's not like you're ever going to see them again. Your line you used looked just fine.
 
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