racist manager. happy day its his last day

[joe45]

i have this manager who sit next to my in a big office. this started for 5 months. in beginning i was sitting far away but for the job everybody moves from desk to desk. its a call centre.
at first he was ok . he goes around talks to everyone and a friendly guy. i thought he was a cool guy and he always came to my desk makin chit chat and what i did on the weekend.

later on he gets news hes moving to east coast since his gf got a job there. so today was his last day , but yesterday since we sit next to each other we always say hey or say something. no long conversations as we have to be working. but there are breaks and delays-computer loading, signing onto the computer, logging in and during this delay we make small talk be in weekend, dating, ....etc
during the afternoon he tells ppl around our desk hes having a yard sale .
me--are you selling a aquariam by any chance
manager-why do you want one?
me-i got some gold fish and maybe buy some koi
manager-why dont you get some real fish like a shark or angel fish
me-those are expensive hehe
manager-why dont you just dig a whole in your yard and put gold fish there like all you ASIANS do
me-oh and look at his face-he has a serious look

what the heck -yea all us asians hey. right

another story. we talking about dating and how a friend of mine told me how women have a type of guy they go for-be it tall blonde white male, or asian educated male, or lebron james type of guy. they all have a type and he agrees too
manager-most or all girls dont like asian guys
me -how do you know this
manager-i know a lot of ppl
me-well some do
manager-well yea the tradional ones
me-pause 3 minutes later i say why do you think most girls dont like asian guys
manager- displays the pinky finger(indicating well small tool)

another story
me -most girl i met just want me to buy things for them and want dinner paid too thats my problem
manager-yea most you guys or asians-not sure what he said -have all the money
me-well not all of us
another sterotype

he says all this in serious way too and its not like we are in any way friendship or tight .
i know what it means and its racist. not professional as a manager.
other time we talk about cars and i ask him if he had load of money would he get an audi r8 and he tells me he rather get a domestic car. i ask him why and he said b/c he wants to support hard working north americans first .
if he was still working there i would have went to the manager. since hes leaving theres no point and i dont want to cause any friction between the managers and workplace. hes like this since he can get away with it. hes leaving the city and the company. also who going believe a junior employee over an older senior manager. on top of it the highers managers are all white and hes white. so who are they going vouch and believe. so i didnt bother going to the top boss

i really hate this manager guys guts. today i didnt talk to at all and he noticed this. he tried to make conversation and i just answered one word(like all the girls at library do to me when i sarge them) . they had a party and he gave me cake but i just bought it home and gave to my family. i just listend to my music on break too. he moving to a smaller city which be better for him since its less multi cultural -he be happier.
they had a drinking beer party with him after work since it was his last day. he ask me to come and i just said i dont drink. --in my mind im like yea goin to your going away party yea right. you have to buy me steak, alaskan king crab, and i might think about it. im not wasting my money and time . no way. i rather sarge

 

[gspshields2]

why are you such a fvcking pvssy, you make all asians look bad

I was defending you before, now I see you are just a troll.

if he was actually saying that sh1t to me I would have told him
I fvcked his mom.

and if he decided to get in my face I would fvcking break his arm
and take a piss on him.

would you like to meet him? I gurantee you he would not say that to my face.

you seem to be a weak little loser who everyone walks all over in life,
and you deserve it

no one talks sh1t to me, u know why?

BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T GET AWAY WITH IT



ARE U GONNA FVCKING PUNCH HIM OR WHAT?

GO to HIS Fvcking party and man up and fight him you little pvssy.

FVCK U MAKE ME SO MAD!

 

[Ringleader41]

White people are racist! Get used to it.

 

[Iceberg]

White people are racist! Get used to it.

Ban.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I think the OP has asberger's. Being a minority does make it any easier.

Telling someone with asberger's to "sarge away" everywhere they go does not make things better. They are the opposite of intuitive and unable to see the world from someone else's perspective. They can't learn enough from each rejection to make the numbers game worthwhile.

Of course the things the manager said are inappropriate, but the OP's reaction of silent, passive-aggressive anger is counterproductive to any relationship. If he could see the world through the manager's eyes, he would realize that the manager was just an ignorant man who was actually trying to be nice by kidding around with the foreigner. He'd serve the joke right back, saying that the manager was just jealous because all asians are smarter than him. Then they'd go drink beer and have fun, which btw is the type of behavior that attracts women.

 

[Who Dares Win]

You have to deal with stupid people and their stereotypes, the good thing is that you still have your kung fu to deal with them, and if the bastard call his friends just get them to the restaurant and have a group rumble, Im sure they will run like little b1tches once the cook will come out with his katana.

 

[juicywa]

i make racist jokes all the time.. stereotypes and ****...even for my race.. theres one for each race.. i think its all fun and games..

relax

id love to work at your place since it seems like everyone there dont mind.. oh except for you. you should have left.


if it made you uncomfortable, then you should have talked to him in the first place. fag.

 

[gspshields2]

I think the OP has asberger's. Being a minority does make it any easier.

Telling someone with asberger's to "sarge away" everywhere they go does not make things better. They are the opposite of intuitive and unable to see the world from someone else's perspective. They can't learn enough from each rejection to make the numbers game worthwhile.

Of course the things the manager said are inappropriate, but the OP's reaction of silent, passive-aggressive anger is counterproductive to any relationship. If he could see the world through the manager's eyes, he would realize that the manager was just an ignorant man who was actually trying to be nice by kidding around with the foreigner. He'd serve the joke right back, saying that the manager was just jealous because all asians are smarter than him. Then they'd go drink beer and have fun, which btw is the type of behavior that attracts women.

After reading this a second time I don't believe that the boss was trying to be intentionally disrespectful towards the OP.

I believe they were joking around and it was friendly in nature towards the OP, he even invited the OP to join him for going away party.

If someone is intentionally being disrespectful towards you, you have all the right to beat him up. In this case, unless I was there, I wouldn't be able to tell whether the boss was kidding around or the boss was intentionally disrespecting someone, which calls for an ass wh00ping.

Due to the nature of the OPs posts I do agree that he probably has Asbergers and unable to understand social situations like a normal person would.

 

[gspshields2]

i make racist jokes all the time.. stereotypes and ****...even for my race.. theres one for each race.. i think its all fun and games..

relax

id love to work at your place since it seems like everyone there dont mind.. oh except for you. you should have left.


if it made you uncomfortable, then you should have talked to him in the first place. fag.

If your joking around its fine, if you walk up to a black guy from the hood and tell him "FUVK YOU N****R", "Hey im just joking" then expect to get whats coming to you.

 

[youngmack]

Lmaoo i find this funny for some reason...yeah i do make jokes about my own race(black) .. When other people make jokes i dont really take it serious for some reason idk why..

 

[youngmack]

No actually this story is actually hilarious i cant stop laughing omg. That manager is funny

 

[joe45]

why are you such a fvcking pvssy, you make all asians look bad

I was defending you before, now I see you are just a troll.

if he was actually saying that sh1t to me I would have told him
I fvcked his mom.

and if he decided to get in my face I would fvcking break his arm
and take a piss on him.

would you like to meet him? I gurantee you he would not say that to my face.

you seem to be a weak little loser who everyone walks all over in life,
and you deserve it

no one talks sh1t to me, u know why?

BECAUSE THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T GET AWAY WITH IT



ARE U GONNA FVCKING PUNCH HIM OR WHAT?

GO to HIS Fvcking party and man up and fight him you little pvssy.

FVCK U MAKE ME SO MAD!

yea i doubt it and its a work environment. ok if the guy is 5 inches taller and weights 60 pounds more than you . are you really gonna start something

most racist guy that called me names was usually a lot bigger than me and i was by myself-i was on bus, grocery store.
i doubt they say it if i was with my friends or group of them lol and he was by himself

 

[gspshields2]

yea i doubt it and its a work environment. ok if the guy is 5 inches taller and weights 60 pounds more than you . are you really gonna start something

most racist guy that called me names was usually a lot bigger than me and i was by myself-i was on bus, grocery store.
i doubt they say it if i was with my friends or group of them lol and he was by himself

listen, go ahead and fight some guys once in a while if they start it then you can defend yourself legally. if someone disrespects you, don't just take it from them. it doens't matter if you get beat up ok, its about being a man.

take your lumps ok, you're so scared of getting beat up, you let people walk all over you.

so what if the guy is 60 pounds heavier than you, have some courage and step up to him.

i think it would be good for you, even if you get beat up, so that you grow
some balls.

be a fvcking man.

Im not telling you to break the law. DONT BREAK THE LAW OK? im telling you to stand your ground, show that you have a backbone, and if he attacks, you defend yourself. YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO SO!


You literally sound like a kid who is getting bullied at school who is asking for help.
You are friggen 29, wtf is wrong with you?

 

[joe45]

yea and get braindamage or something and he gets 3 years for assault . thats what it like in vancity. i know this since i follow the news all the time

 

[gspshields2]

yea and get braindamage or something and he gets 3 years for assault . thats what it like in vancity. i know this since i follow the news all the time

Dude are you really Asian, or you just playing?

 

[youngmack]

Lmaoooooo this whole post is just too hysterical

 

[headFirst]

If he is leaving why does any of this matter anymore..

 

[Iceberg]

Lmaoooooo this whole post is just too hysterical

It won't be hysterical when gspshields2 goes buckwild on you.

 

[BigSmooth]

Obviously no physical violence is needed...just a little wit and a quick mouth.

No need to act like a drunk gorilla at a bar trying to walk around finding someone to fight.


If he jokes and banters with you, just joke and banter right back. Be a male for pete sakes. This is typical locker room, grungy male humor...roll with the punches.

No need to take things so seriously.

Then there's always the just make him feel dumber route.

In concerning the Audi R8 conversation, when he said he'd rather buy domestic, just joke and say, "well that's great for you, call me anytime and I'd be happy to pick you up in my foreign 2 seater when your domestic car breaks down unexpectedly on the side of the road."

It's just smack talking mixed with joking and bantering. Most of this stuff is not meant to be serious.