"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Race or Background Have an Impact?

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Hey Everyone!

My first post on here! :D Really glad I found this place. Anyway, a little introduction of myself. I'm a 17 yr old guy living in BC, Canada.

Well a popular topic has come up amongst my friends. This is not meant to be racist, but as I see it, it seems to be true. I think they based their assumptions on a statistic. Anyway, they say that asian girls are more attracted to caucasian guys.

I don't want to believe it, but it's a common sight here. Perhaps it's just here, but there are other cliche instances in shows (and actually a girl friend told me that she was attracted to a foreign exchange student), but what is it about foreign guys that instantly attract women? It's as if they had one of the things women subconsciously look for (wealth, means, looks, etc).

I'd like to get some male and female input and settle this truth or myth once and for all.

Thanks,
Mark
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yup, listen to The Shezzler. What's on the outside don't really matter if your inner-game is good.

But as a point of interest, I think you're right shadowstormz. People like someone/thing that is unique. In this case, people from a different country.

And as an Asian Guy, I find caucasians/american's to be hotter than asian girls. It's just natural.

-peace-
 

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Yeah its because they see something they aren't used to, chicks often find accents to be sexy for some odd reason. Pick up a nice French or russian accent if you can. ;) Or, of course, screw it and stay how you are and use other methods.

I've also noticed asian girls seem to go more for white guys..
 

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It depends on the foreign dude. If hes a small creepy stalker dude.. then no. But lifestyles are different in different locations.


Even in the U.S. (I can say this cause I have lived in both for quite some time) IM GENERAL people in the north are more uptight, and southerners are IN GENERAL more laid back and drink alot more. :)

Maybe the asian girl likes a white guy cause shes never dated one? But I don't think its wierd or anything...
 

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black chicks love me.

guess thats what u get for being the most confident white kid ever.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lol i remember this black girl told me once she liked me! also, one day, i was at the mall wit my friend, we just went there to look for some markers and we went in to go to the food court, well we were sitted eatin and talkin about the markers and this bunch of girls said hi to us! lol and we never even seen them before! the bad this is, that we decided to look for them like in wat? 1 or 2 minutes after that, and we lost them! lol

EDIT: forgot to say im mexican! lol
 

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I like all races... so ... hey..:rolleyes: I don't understand why one race would just be attractive to only their race...
 

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Well it's the change and surprise and how he's different. I like every race and there's no preference for me though I generally go for white girls because that's all I see. lol. But yeah they seem to find something appealing about different races.
 

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white guys are more attractive than asian guys because asian eyes are a culturally femenine feature, a lot have really wide noses, and most are shorter and less built.
 

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im sorry if you guys think im bull ****in, but SPANISH GIRLS are attrated to BLACK GUYS...im black and i cant get em off me!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Fender
Yup, listen to The Shezzler. What's on the outside don't really matter if your inner-game is good.

But as a point of interest, I think you're right shadowstormz. People like someone/thing that is unique. In this case, people from a different country.

And as an Asian Guy, I find caucasians/american's to be hotter than asian girls. It's just natural.

-peace-
What do u find more attractive in a white woman then a chinese woman?
 

dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by dadmonson
What do u find more attractive in a white woman then a chinese woman?
taller, different hair and eye colors. oh yeah, more body hair :D

tbh most asian girls are pretty nerdy so that hurts them too

sux that im part asian :( but no one can tell :cheer:
 

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Well, as my previous (and asian) girlfriend can attest, us white guys just pleasure them more. Haha, just kidding, but seriously it race and background do influence whether girls find you attractive or not. Anyone who says "girls only care what's on the inside, no matter the color of your skin" are bsing you, though it is true that you can still be succesful no matter your race. I think the reason that girls (and many guys, as well) are attracted to "exotic" members of the opposite sex is because they provide variety. If you're white, though you still enjoy white women, you've probably been around them so often that you something new seems better.
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
taller, different hair and eye colors. oh yeah, more body hair :D

tbh most asian girls are pretty nerdy so that hurts them too

sux that im part asian :( but no one can tell :cheer:
tall and hairy? are we still talking about girls here?
 

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Originally posted by arutha
Yeah its because they see something they aren't used to, chicks often find accents to be sexy for some odd reason. Pick up a nice French or russian accent if you can. ;) Or, of course, screw it and stay how you are and use other methods.

I've also noticed asian girls seem to go more for white guys..
It's true for a lot of guys too. I LOVE a girl with a European accent. SO sexy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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this thread is racist beyond reason, someone close this before i start busting everyone's balls
 

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If youre mexican and youre trying to appeal to a white girls who is really preppy and you come off as a ghetto ass mexican, youre not going to appeal to her very much..... But if you at least speak proper english, and dress decently, and make a good first impression then there will be no problem.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Well it's the change and surprise and how he's different. I like every race and there's no preference for me though I generally go for white girls because that's all I see. lol. But yeah they seem to find something appealing about different races.
lol that's because they're southern chinese
about 80% of all the chinese overseas in north america are southern chinese; in particular from Hong Kong or guangdong

the small bone structure and the wide nose is a phenotype of a typical southern chinese

try going to northern china to provinces like hebei (the province where beijing is located) or some northern provinces,
you'll see that the "asians" there are a lot bigger boned and tall

i'm not trying to dis southern asians cuz i was born in Hong Kong myself.

Genetically, i'm northern chinese but culturally i'm southern chinese

Here to give you some statistics

the average height of hong kong: 5'5 for males

the average height of the US: 5'8

the average height of people in beijing: 5'9

growing up with southern chinese yeah.. they're a lot more feminen and skinny

i'm 5'10 and i tower over most of em
but when you put me into a group of northern chinese i'm not tall, i'm actually quite short

having said that.. the southern asian girls in north america aren't very attractive either... what are you guys thinking? lol

white girls or nothern chinese/korean girls are the way to go
 

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When regarding this subject, I like to think of what Juliet said in Romeo and Juliet, it wen't something like this, "A rose if called by any other name, would smell just as sweet." The point is, it's not your race that matters, but it's who YOU are that matters. If Michael Jordan was white, it wouldn't matter, because he would still be Michael Jordan, regardless of race.
 

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If Michael Jackson were black, he would still be a child molester.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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