Race, Age and Attractiveness (slightly racist thread here)

[dudewut]

Do you think that there is a relationship between who you attract based on your and their race? And also age?

Case Study (based on who approached me before and how many rejected me):

It seems that I have more success with Indian, Latinas (especially Dominicans...which is awesome) and White girls between the ages of 21-27.

As for the East Asian community, Koreans, Vietnamese and Japanese seem to like me as well.

HOWEVER. Filipinas find me repulsive (which is weird because I am Filipino...well half, but I look pure Filipino anyway)

And also Black women find me unattractive as well. I just recalled I have NEVER been approached by a black girl before....ever. I tried approaching one but she sorta just gently blew me off :O

*hides behind wall*

 

[neghitzbrah]

Do you think that there is a relationship between who you attract based on your and their race? And also age?

Case Study (based on who approached me before and how many rejected me):

It seems that I have more success with Indian, Latinas (especially Dominicans...which is awesome) and White girls between the ages of 21-27.

As for the East Asian community, Koreans, Vietnamese and Japanese seem to like me as well.

HOWEVER. Filipinas find me repulsive (which is weird because I am Filipino...well half, but I look pure Filipino anyway)

And also Black women find me unattractive as well. I just recalled I have NEVER been approached by a black girl before....ever. I tried approaching one but she sorta just gently blew me off :O

*hides behind wall*

I can honestly say that this is all in your head. If you believe you will have less luck with a particular race, height, age, then you will have less luck. It's about confidence. You do better with, lets say, a 23 year old latina because you are confident you will get with her. Thus, portraying a display of confidence which is a win-win :rockon:

I used to think I was terrible with anything but brown/indian or black or girls that are 5'5" or taller. My options have opened up dramatically ever since I started approaching women outside of my type (which is also known as a 'comfort zone'). Isn't this site all about stepping out of your comfort zone?

"Nothing worth attaining for is within your comfort zone" - forgot who said this.

 

[dudewut]

I can honestly say that this is all in your head.

I would agree with you, BUT those observations were compiled AFTER it already happened, its not like I go out thinking that all Filipino girls will reject me for example. In fact I did not change my attitude in this duration at all as I was very chumpy (chumpier then, still kinda is).

And to be honest I actually thought white girls are gonna reject me, but looking back it was mainly Filipino girls who did (not all of them though, but based on how many of them I talked to and how many of the other races I did). Of course that I have taken into account that I have not talked to everyone in the world.

However, we must take into account that sometimes external factors DO matter and directly affect us. Especially culture, since physical attractiveness is different depending on the culture.

The new age "You just that think that way" BS, sounds awfully like "the Secret" By Rhonda Byrne just wrapped in a different colored paper, no?

Just sayin' man.

 

[Fuglydude]

I'm a 5'8" East Indian dude... I'll be 30 later this year. I think as long as you're taking care of yourself and maintaining a jacked physique you'll have most kinds of girls interested in you.

I was a stripper for a few years from age 24 to 28, and during that time I've done hundreds of shows both revues and stagettes all across western Canada as well as up North. Most of the girls that booked me/us were white based simply on the demographics of Western Canada. However, I've performed for latin, mixed groups, East Indian, pretty much every culture/group you can think of! I've mostly dated/screwed white girls as its a lot easier to get into their pants than trying to do so with a brown girl. In addition, very few people think I'm East Indian. Most people think I'm mulatto, hispanic, or some kind of weird mix. My fiance is white.

All ethnicities have attractive people. I have reasonable genetics and over the years I've worked hard to build my physique. Us guys in general have an advantage over women as we age, as we become more confident and established in our careers as we age, whereas women's looks can fade if they don't take care of themselves. Furthermore, if you've been training consistently through out your 20s, you can really explode in your 30s and have a truly elite physique based on the years you've put in and the understanding of your body that you've developed.

I honestly don't think that race/age make that much of a difference, as long as you work hard to stay fundamentally attractive to women. This means working on your physique, establishing a strong career/business focus w/ a good income, developing astute social/sexual awareness and having a cool personality.

 

[neghitzbrah]

However, we must take into account that sometimes external factors DO matter and directly affect us. Especially culture, since physical attractiveness is different depending on the culture.

This does make a difference to a certain extent. In fact, for some women, I have to admit that they have a taste for a particular race, culture, skin tone, physique, etc. But in the long wrong, I believe that confidence and personality play a critical role in attractiveness from women.

The new age "You just that think that way" BS, sounds awfully like "the Secret" By Rhonda Byrne just wrapped in a different colored paper, no?

Maybe I was a bit forward with the statement that 'it's all in your head.' But I still stand by my beliefs that inner game makes the biggest difference in the world. It seems that your post exhibits a negative aspect across this entire situation. Gotta get rid of those negatives.

I don't have a case study to back this up. Nor do I have the enormous quantities of women to back this up... but I have a very good success/failure ratio. I believe that this is supportive of my positive mindset on my life. Plus my ego can get a bit high, but that might be a good thing.