"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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R. Kelly... Trapped in the Closet DVD...

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I bought this yesterday... some crazy ****. Basically it's R. Kelly narrating a story, no other voices, and it's just an extremely long song, titled, "Chapters 1-12"

There is nothing DJ-related about this, it's just crazy. Everyone's cheating on each other, brandishing guns. It's funny, too.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ER!C L!VE

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Ya know, I like that tune. I haven't heard the entire 2 hours of it (or however long it is lol).
 
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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook

Everyone's cheating on each other, brandishing guns.
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In other words, a soap opera. Am i the only one who finds the title "Trapped in the closet" and the song style a little too coincidental?
 
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R. Kelly for some reason gets away with some weird crap. I was in awe when I heard Dave Chapplle's Pee on you video was based off of an actual R Kelly video.
 
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I didn't know anything about that video until I saw it on South Park.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
R. Kelly for some reason gets away with some weird crap. I was in awe when I heard Dave Chapplle's Pee on you video was based off of an actual R Kelly video.
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it was based off of an actual real life R. Kelly event.
 
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Robert and I attended the same school at one time. His life was full of drama back then too. However, the best thing I've seen concerning him was on the cartoon "Boondocks." The episode was "The Trial of R.Kelly." Funny as h3ll if any of you can catch it.
 
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