"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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R.I.P. Sean Taylor

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Lived in Maryland for the past 5 years and although I didn't love them, I respect their work ethic and teamwork. He will be missed and my thoughts go out to his friends and family.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mahon83050

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They were saying on the radio, they think it was a hit. If the guy was coming to rob is house, he would of stolen what he wanted and left. Instead he made it a point to knock down his bedroom door and shoot him.
 

Microphone Fiend

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RIP. Also I'm doubting the hitman theory... wat kind of hitman shoots someone in the groin?

His house got broken into last week I heard...
 

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i can picture some AFC shooting Taylor in his groin because he was "upset" over Taylor dating the AFC's ex gf
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Microphone Fiend said:
RIP. Also I'm doubting the hitman theory... wat kind of hitman shoots someone in the groin?

His house got broken into last week I heard...
If you were robbing a house you would take something and not waste your time to shoot someone, therefore incriminating yourself to a degree. Threre's more to it than a simple robbery.
 
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