R I P BeDJ

[foreverAFC]

shoulda just manned up and had the kid, its not the end of the world

 

[BeDJ]

Oh boo hoo, baby want his bottle too? Aaaaw!!

So I'm guessing that NEVER is a good time to have a baby now in America...

I guess that makes you and anyone who follows your example a low quality man.

Its always someone else's fault isn't it BeDJ...

I'm clearly mistaken, its YOU who is the VICTIM here aren't you?

she clearly entrapped you into fvcking her!!!

your anger is locked up in a real person

SamTheHobbit has no reason to leave this forum but you clearly do.

You followed all the advice to meeting women, getting them interested and getting them pregnant and now what are you doing?

You hope the mods lock this thread and ban me

They deserve the lives they are living now, just as you deserve yours now.

I suggest mods sticky a thread about the consequences of getting sex from women. We often forget what the purpose of SEX is.

Thanks for the input. I'll reconsider in the future.

 

[JoeMarron]

I personally wouldn't have done it but I respect your decision. Follow Dgwizdal's advice and be there for the chick. There's a time to be a jerk and a time to be a respectable human being.

Human life is the most important thing on Earth. It's the new 1st world generation who are weeding themselves out of the gene pool. Ungreatful tools of feminism you are.

Calm down bro. There's seven billion of us, we'll be alright

 

[devilkingx2]

This thread should stay about BeDJ and giving him a space to vent and share etc... So I'd hate to take this bait and contribute to the thread degenerating into exactly what we know it will....

But LiveFree, you christians are so ****ing crazy and backwards and I'm glad evolution is weening you out of the gene pool.

Edit: And "god" forbid you could just let a guy go through one of the most significant experiences of his life without trying to angrily shame him for not abiding by your antiquated beliefs.

Double Edit: I'm a hypocrite for talking about improving the discourse around here and then getting baited into the above. I'll go pray on that.

don't lump us all together, I know pro-choice christians, and I am one.

 

[TheVirtualMind]

To BeDJ and the rest of us interested in talking about the actual subject matter of this thread...

Let's remember what we have been taught by withdrawing our attention from certain posters who seek to derail this conversation and turn it into a street corner with people handing out flyers about how we're all going to hell.

Besides, there is a thin line between those who cannot control their impulses to attack others who do not ride on the same moral high horse as them and the guy who clubs girls over the head and drags them into his basement so that he can "save them" from their wicked ways...

That's not the type of people we want to be engaging with and I, for one, am much more interested in supporting our brother BDJ in this tough time.

Very well said. Now, final chance...Stay on track with this thread. Opinions are allowed. Insults aren't. Keep it clean or keep it to yourself.

 

[Desdinova]

Kicking someone when he's down isn't going to remedy anything nor make him adopt your point of view.

Also, who was the one who suggested being there for the chick? That's probably the best thing I've heard out of this thread, but that's if she actually wants it. She'll be going through a 5hitload of emotions too, so it's hard to say what she'll be willing to do.

BeDJ, that's one hell of a difficult thing to go through and definitely an experience to learn from. Things will get better as time passes.

 

[Jaylan]

^Grow up buddy. It takes two.

Wanna know what I did the night the condom slipped off in an old fling of mine? We discussed it right then and there, and first thing in the morning I bought the morning after pill.

OP shouldve stayed on top of things better, just like the chick should have. They both made mistakes. No need to immaturely place blame all on the chick for this. Grown men need to know how to be responsible about this crap themselves too.

No way in hell Id let a condom slip off into a woman, and then not go get the morning after pill with her and watch her take it. No way in hell Id let time go by and have her messaging me pregnancy test pics.

Onto the OP....

Lesson learned OP. You goofed originally, but then did what was best at the end of it all. Just be a decent lad and try and be there for the girl if she wants the friendship.

 

[Jaylan]

Surprise surprise. A predictable response from the resident mangina rallying to the defense of those poor women, who of course have zero responsibility in his world.

Lmao...nice insults. Shows how emotionally tied to this you are that you cannot debate without being a childish brat.

Did you read my post with any understanding? Does it not take two people to create a child? Did I not say the OP AND the girl screwed up? Did the OP stay on top of things like he should have?

We're constantly hearing about it being her body. Well if it's her body then it's her responsibility. Women have so many methods of birth control that are unavailable to men. There is no excuse.

And theres no excuse why a grown ass man can not be responsible enough to stay on top of these things (no offense BeDJ). Like in my situation, OP had every opportunity to go with her and do the morning after pill the next day. Not wait for a pregnancy test picture.

The moment a woman becomes aware that she has placed herself in a situation where she may become pregnant then the onus is on her, as an autonomous agent. This is the very definition of self ownership this site teaches.

Jesus christ. Its up to the man AND the woman. This is about two peoples lives being thrown upside down because of pregnancy. A mature and responsible adult man should notice when birth control mistakes happen and then fix it.

When a condom slips off, you get the morning after pill pronto. Whats wrong with what I have said? Stop being immature and grow the fvk up. Your advice doesnt help men learn that THEY HAVE TO CONTROL who they bring into this world or not. Your advice lays all of this on women, and a guy shouldnt expect a woman to do everything in that regard, especially when it takes TWO people to create a life.

So you can be a grade schooler, call people names, and whine all you want...the mature people in this thread know how things should be done. A man should stay on top of all this....handle his emotions properly, and also try and be a decent person to the woman (provided shes a good person). Or do you wanna call Des and the others manginas too for advocating that OP dare be nice to the girl after an emotional trialing experience between the both of them?

But of course Gaylan knows this.

He just likes to pick up an argument for the sake of it.

Im sorry that your mind is incapable of proper reading comprehension. Troll elsewhere buddy. You mad? Like I said, grow the hell up.

 

[Epimanes]

I agree it takes two. I also agree the responsibility is 50/50. If they noticed the condom slipped off both of them should have had concern right away and had a discussion on what they would do under worst case scenerio.

If you can fvck her you should be able to talk to her in a responsible and mature manner and approach the situation with logic from the very moment this occured.

I agree also about taking her feelings into great consideration. Its a HUGE toll on the woman for abortion or pregnancy. She will be an emotional wreck. I highly suggest you support whatever decision she makes since its her body and be kind to her in the process. If she has the abortion she will wonder forever what the little person looked like. What their personality might have been. When their birthday might be. And each year she will reflect on it and possibly have regrets and fears over it. If she has the kid.. Well she will wonder if your going to help raise it or if your going to abandon her and the baby or if your going to help with child support at the minimum. Whatever happens she will be a different person forever and likely a lot more cautious about "hooking up". People don't realize the responsibility that comes with having sex often until its too late. Anything can happen when u stick your dyck in your current woman and child birth should be one of those things that cross your mind of being possible when you do and should communicate to your sex partner what you both would do under those circumstances if it were to come to that BEFORE you stick it in.

Just my 2 cents.

Epi

 

[Jaylan]

Jaylan you are a clown. You complain about being “insulted” only to then throw out an insult of your own in the next sentence while completely ignoring the relatively simple points I made.

I only reciprocate in kind. Problem?

Of course you have a history of being unreasonable in the face of basic logic and coherent argument when debating 98% of intelligent posters on this forum.

If thats the case, please quote my previous post and respond with logical replies. All you are doing right now is running away from the points I made.

If anyone else disagrees with comments made then I'll reply, otherwise I have better things to do with my night than punch brick walls.

Actually, several people in this thread have posted similar things to what I have. Epimanes just made a post echoing those viewpoints.

Ill announce it so everyone can see it clearly; this post of yours is merely a feeble attempt to save face, because you cannot point out where exactly I was incorrect in my assessment of OPs situation.

 

[BeDJ]

This thread has WAY more drama than between me and the baby mama.

 

[GotED?]

It's what breaks this world apart - EGO.

When closed minded idiots think they are always right and forcing their views on others defensively and aggressively.

I wish mankind would grow up a bit after the Holocaust and WWII.

Exodus

 

[LiveFreeX]

Let's remember what we have been taught by withdrawing our attention from certain posters who seek to derail this conversation and turn it into a street corner with people handing out flyers about how we're all going to hell.

Yes lets all sit in a circle, sing kumbaya, eat chocolate and pat each other on the back cause that's what BeDJ really needs right now. We all need to agree that banging broads without consequence is what SS is all about or at least has become.

but then did what was best at the end of it all

For whom? For two irresponsible adults who created a third human life and then coluded to kill it? mmm yes, best for them, agreed. Now they can return to a life of mutual masterbation, collecting meaningless pieces of paper and playing house.

The banks also recenetly did what was best for them, not for the country mind you but for them. Corporations in America also do whats best for them, not for all the people that need jobs but for the share holders. I'd like to know where you Americans draw your line... it seems as though everyone is simply out for themselves. Live for now, YOLO, forget about future generations or your neighbours, they're not important right? This bs about not having children has got to stop. The more educated you become the less children you have? You are no better than the Feminist broads from Duke University. What do your parents have to say about this??? You red pillers are supposed to be the ones best fit for being parents, instead I just see a bunch of peter pans fvcking low quality *****s. What the hell is wrong with you people???

Its sick really, China and the US have so much in common now... developing the same narcissitic habits that you all seem to think are so wonderful. Here its pretty normal to dump your unwanted young women into a dumpster right after their born and walk away as if its nothing... sound familiar?

The powers that be have succeeded, they completely destroyed the family unit and made it so that people can kill their UNWANTED children. So how many guys here were UNWANTED by their parents? Probably 99% of you. What makes us respect our folks is not them waiting till they were financially sound and mature to have us but that they made mistakes and pulled through to try and give us a better life. If you can do this, what sorts of other evil are you capable of in the name of financial gain? Pro-Choice... but nobody gave that little person a choice because I'm pretty sure they would have said "Please don't kill me".

Can you imagine your father explaining this to you as the reason you're not allowed to live:

"sorry son but I just wanted to keep fvcking other women, making money, and playing world of warcraft and so thats why you can't live, you would just screw up MY plans for MY future. "

Some of you need to take a good hard look at yourselves. I see more and more threads about guys choosing the lowest quality women so they can just get their d1ck wet. If this isn't who you were before you 'found game' this shouldn't be who you are now. Its high time men start expecting more from their women than a set of t1ts and a$$. If you want this country to return to its former glory you have to use the criteria that men had when it was IN its glory.. and hold yourselves accountable for YOUR actions. If she isn't someone you can see having kids with, don't put your d1ck near her. You are literally taking the life of children in your hands. If you can't stomach the thought of plunging a knife into one of your own family members, your dog or your cat then why would you do it to your own baby.

Adoption is still the best choice and there are still good people out there who can do your job for you if you aren't fit to do it yourself. I work with them everyday.


R.I.P. Unwanted kids.

Very well said. Now, final chance...Stay on track with this thread. Opinions are allowed. Insults aren't. Keep it clean or keep it to yourself.

You are welcome to ban me, I stand behind my beliefs and I don't think I have anything left to add to this forum anyway.

 

[Jaylan]

^ Noone cares. Stop trying to shove your beliefs bro. This isn't the thread for that. Quit the hijack

 

[Desdinova]

This thread has WAY more drama than between me and the baby mama.

I believe you are correct, and I think it's run its course. Time to turn the lights off and go home.