"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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R-E-S-P-E-C-T (no Aretha Franklin)

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Being respected. Gaining respect. How do you gain the respect of others? I used to believe this as un intrinsic masculine phenomenon. Meaning that you will comfortably be able to get your point across without being ridiculed. For women to be able to take you seriously. Voice tonality. Because I've come to this conclusion: A real DJ attracts women not necessarily seeking them but rather the women seeking us due to our competence of life. Has anyone here ever had to check someone on how they were talking to you?
I'm reading Pook's Bible entry on Be a Man and trying to decipher

alright ~1~:cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you respect yourself, people will respect you.
And if someone doesn't respect you and his social value is higher than yuors than its time to mpve up on the ladder.
 
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