"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quotes to live by

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"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." - Wayne Gretzky

"Half of life is f***ing up - the other half is dealing with it." -Henry Rollins

"Don't do anything by half. If you love someone, love them. If you hate someone, hate them until it hurts." -Henry Rollins

"Potential is synonymous with getting your a** kicked." -Kevin Constantine

"Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut." -Ernest Hemmingway

"That's how you become great man. Hang your balls out there!" -Jerry Cantrell

"In the end we are what we pretend to be." -Jerry Cantrell

"There's nothing worse than talking about yourself to find
out that you're not that interesting." - Sean Kinney
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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new_juan

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Whoa,

This post is an old one but has garnered some fame so I think I will breathe more life into it. I will wax the philosophical.

"Saints need sinners" Alan Watts

Alan Watts will blow your mind , check him out.
 

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Successful people tend to become more successful because they are always thinking about their successes. - Brian Tracy

Well done is better than Well said. - Benjamin franklin

The only thing you have to fear is not giving 100% -Broadband

You can't always control the wind, but you can control your sails. -- Anthony Robbins

If I had listened to the critics I'd have died drunk in the gutter -- Chekov

If you have the will to win, you have achieved half your success; if you don't, you have achieved half your failure. -- David Ambrose
 

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If men cease to believe that they will one day become gods then they will surely become worms.
* Henry Miller

Things are pretty, graceful, rich, elegant, handsome, but, until they speak to the imagination, not yet beautiful.
* Ralph Waldo Emerson

Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one's death.
* Rollo May
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"good to the last drop"... folgers coffee

"walk away and leave them hungry for more".. unknown

"suck dry"... penkitten:)
 

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If God had wanted me otherwise He would have made me otherwise.

-Goethe
 

Capi Crimini

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Peter Piper Picker a pec of pickled peppers, If petter piper picked a pec of pickled pepers how many dikcled pepers did piper suck. ~Charmed on TNN

She Sells Herself on the seashore ~ Incarnage` Dipled

X,X,X, baby.... ~ Your mom....

Lets all go play hide and go **** ourselves- Adam Sandler
 

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"Successful people are willing to do what unsuccessful people are unwilling to do." - Rory Aplanalp

"If you do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've gotten." - Unknown

"You don't always get what you want, but you nearly always get what you expect." - Rory Aplanalp
 

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The greatest risk is not taking one at all.

"Go fvck yourself!"
tom hanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HuangBei

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"On the ragged edge of the world
I'll roam
And the home of the Wolf
Will be my home." -forgotten-

"God is Man without ego."-anonymous-

"Life is too short to be little."-one of our DJs here-

"If you don't do this now, you'll waste your life doing nothing."-anonymous-

"Get the bi***, fu** the bi***, drop the bi***." -my brother-

"Girls are a dime a dozen.... But women...that's a different story." -me-
 
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