"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quitting SS indefinitely

sageproduct

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Need to be more productive with my time. I don't do anything here anymore besides troll, and the end of the school semester is coming up. Gotta focus for now.

Cya dudes, I'll be back

P.S. packers you're one nasty creep man. I can't believe you had cybersex with me, how gross of you to do that!!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

Ninjer was on to me so quickly. he pm'ed me the next day and called me (rightfully so) a sick fwck for making packers jizz all over his keyboard. I didn't confirm nor deny...til now!!!!!!

SauSageProduct out!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamTheHobit

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You can never leave.
 

Who Dares Win

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I dont think 10 minutes here spread through an entire day are gonna make any difference, you probably need to cut "psychologically" than in terms of time, anyway do as you believe its gonna be your benefit.
 
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