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Hey, guys. I've recently been absolutely drained by the dreg results of attempting game on tinder, Snapchat and Instagram. I'm thinking quitting Snapchat and tinder (since I'm not on Instagram as often) will benefit my over all well being. I feel like I'm one amount millions of men hitting up these girls via Snapchat and tinder. My efforts have been bone dry. Not to mention my new feminine desire for validation. I'm on the verge of red pill I just need my blue pill conditioning of the "lonely old man" to fall through and away. Let me know if you guys have or think I should give up social media. I think making friends with dudes in person, which will lead me to women is the better instinct than trying to "make plans" with girls and guy friends on social media.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

cstoffel

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Hey, guys. I've recently been absolutely drained by the dreg results of attempting game on tinder, Snapchat and Instagram. I'm thinking quitting Snapchat and tinder (since I'm not on Instagram as often) will benefit my over all well being. I feel like I'm one amount millions of men hitting up these girls via Snapchat and tinder. My efforts have been bone dry. Not to mention my new feminine desire for validation. I'm on the verge of red pill I just need my blue pill conditioning of the "lonely old man" to fall through and away. Let me know if you guys have or think I should give up social media. I think making friends with dudes in person, which will lead me to women is the better instinct than trying to "make plans" with girls and guy friends on social media.
*One among millions
 

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Unless you use it for business, it is pointless. Social media effects your brain the same way that porn does, it's constant dopamine hits. The way it is designed is like a slot machine you keep refreshing the page.

I quit it months ago and my mental health has dramatically improved, i also have a lot more free time now.
 

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Unless you use it for business, it is pointless. Social media effects your brain the same way that porn does, it's constant dopamine hits. The way it is designed is like a slot machine you keep refreshing the page.

I quit it months ago and my mental health has dramatically improved, i also have a lot more free time now.
How do you talk to women then? You need a facebook account to use facebook dating. I've must have talked with 30 women on the dating app since the end of Oct.
 

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How do you talk to women then? You need a facebook account to use facebook dating. I've must have talked with 30 women on the dating app since the end of Oct.
We know.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hey, guys. I've recently been absolutely drained by the dreg results of attempting game on tinder, Snapchat and Instagram
OLD and social media is a pure sheite hole where you have no advantages at all and the powerplay balls is in the hands of the chicks which are mostly using it for attention (About 80%+ does that) and have no intention of ever set up a date with you.
Do IRL instead it works and is way more effeicent in my opinion.

another pluys with dumbing social media is that you get your life back - a life with no timewasting distractions so you can focus on you.
 

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Hey, guys. I've recently been absolutely drained by the dreg results of attempting game on tinder, Snapchat and Instagram. I'm thinking quitting Snapchat and tinder (since I'm not on Instagram as often) will benefit my over all well being. I feel like I'm one amount millions of men hitting up these girls via Snapchat and tinder. My efforts have been bone dry. Not to mention my new feminine desire for validation. I'm on the verge of red pill I just need my blue pill conditioning of the "lonely old man" to fall through and away. Let me know if you guys have or think I should give up social media. I think making friends with dudes in person, which will lead me to women is the better instinct than trying to "make plans" with girls and guy friends on social media.
Consider using both day/night game and Online game. It's all an ecosystem. You can gain knowledge from your movement and reception through it all.
 

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Hey, guys. I've recently been absolutely drained by the dreg results of attempting game on tinder, Snapchat and Instagram. I'm thinking quitting Snapchat and tinder (since I'm not on Instagram as often) will benefit my over all well being. I feel like I'm one amount millions of men hitting up these girls via Snapchat and tinder. My efforts have been bone dry. Not to mention my new feminine desire for validation. I'm on the verge of red pill I just need my blue pill conditioning of the "lonely old man" to fall through and away. Let me know if you guys have or think I should give up social media. I think making friends with dudes in person, which will lead me to women is the better instinct than trying to "make plans" with girls and guy friends on social media.
Social media and OLD can be exhausting but only if you allow it. Why dont you use it less and spend the extra time in the gym? You will feel better, start looking better and burn off some of your frustration.

The dating world can be brutal but I have the best results when I focus on my own improvement and dont even pay attention to chicks. Seems like thats why my inbox is full of them hitting ME up.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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How do you talk to women then? You need a facebook account to use facebook dating. I've must have talked with 30 women on the dating app since the end of Oct.
I simply text them on whatsapp or Signal
 
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