"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quitting smoking

Do you smoke?

  • Yes

    Votes: 1 8.3%
  • No

    Votes: 10 83.3%
  • Casual smoker (only for social reasons)

    Votes: 1 8.3%

  • Total voters
    12

formerafc

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Out of curiosity, how many DJ's here smoke? Recently I have noticed that smoking is becoming a big turn off to women and this trend seems to be growing.

I want to quit (not for women, but for myself)... what do you all think about smoking and field reports?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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defiancy

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If you want to quit there are many ways...my friend's dad quit smoking through prayer and as a christian I know that's powerful stuff. Other than that, you can try patches and find all of that stuff or just visit the doctor so you don't mess up with yourself.
Good Luck :cool:
 
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