"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quitting smoking

Cheiradawg

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If you have quit smoking, please post how long it took for your cravings to go away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ReD MaFiA

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i put my quit date on a site to keep track:

Your Quit Date is: 8/31/2003 11:59:59 PM

Time Smoke-Free: 47 days, 7 minutes and 5 seconds

Cigarettes NOT smoked: 705

Lifetime Saved: 5 days, 9 hours

Money Saved: $252.00



now i get cravings like once a week,when i'm in a smoky environment or with friends that smoke,but they're VERY weak and easy to control. the real pain in the ass is getting thru first 2 weeks, after that its a breeze.

ps. dont use any "quit smoking aids", those are 100% bullsh1t.
 

TBR

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Hi ReD MaFiA

Congrats on quitting smoking. It's a nasty thing.

@Cheiradawg
Keep on quitting:confused:!
 

Julian

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Smoking is disgusting. Terrible smell, terrible taste. Bleh. I quit a long time ago because i couldnt stand it. I did it cold turkey. Just takes will power.
 

Buzz

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i quit cold turkey. it's all psychological after the first 1-4 weeks. If you smoke more than a pack a day of full flavored and/or menthol it wont be more than a month.

Everything else is just an excuse and your wasting my time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cheiradawg

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Thanks for the perspectives guys.

I smoked a pack of Camel Ultra Lights every day. Any estimates on how long it will take for my cravings to go away.
 
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