"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quitting bupropion

Blacksheep

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Anyone who took this medication have any bad side effects removing it.

Im planning to stop, but read some experiences that people felt very tired, depression came back and some other issues.

After I reduced to 150mg I felt this feeling of tired, and it seems I developed Adhd after I reduced the dosage. Like having big trouble to concentrate and lack of motivation. I alsp removed caffeine for almos a year, idk if that can be something related to that as well since it can take 18 months to fully recover.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Never without a doctor's supervision
 
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