Quit playing the victim....

[stuka1939]

Too many people (myself included) like to play the victim and feel sorry for themselves or whine "life is not fair" when they have a flaw and they do nothing to help themselves.


" I am overweight and attractive women don't pay attention to me, it is not fair, poor me."

If you are fat it is most likely your own fault, and you are not busting your ass 5 days a week exercising like you should be.

" I have an overbite and some of my teeth are crooked. It is not fair they my genetics gave me this, this is why attractive women don't pay attention to me. POOR ME.

Go spend the money on braces or a cosmetic dentist. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF.

"Attractive women ignore me because I wear crummy clothes, it is not fair, poor me.

"Instead of spending your money on stupid ****, go buy some nice clothes."

"Boohoo, Poor me, I have not had a girlfriend in five years because I am shy. Life is unfair."

You are never going to get anywhere in life if you don't take any action and leave your comfort zone.

Remember, learned behavior traits can be changed with enough will and effort and body weight, clothes and crooked teeth/bad bites can be easily corrected.

STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF, PLAYING THE VICTIM, WALLOWING IN SELF PITY AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

DON"T THROW YOURSELF A PITY PARTY, IT IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I agree. Successful people don't make excuses. It's loser behavior.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

the quality of your threads is getting better

Nice post

Peace

 

[ItsOnNow]

You're right. And thing is,I just can't get over this hump that's bugging me. I haven't been taking action all this time. I could be what I want to be,but I feel so behind. Like it's all I think about. I do dress better,but weight has been somewhat a problem for me. I am always in this pity zone. I can't break it. I don't know why,it's like it's overpowered me.

 

[DannykDJ]

Wonderful Post. I agree with everything you said, and you took the words right out of my mouth

I can honestly say that I have never seen a person who was ugly or unattractive simply because of their genetics. 100% of people who are unattractive including both men and women are that way because they simply don't try to improve themselves. Unless you were born with a birth defect what you look like is a product of your own actions.

There is no excuse for not exercising and eating healthy. A gym membership is easily affordable if you stop wasting money on worthless things. I realized a few years that I was spending around $900 a year on video games. Eating healthy is only expensive if you compare it to the dollar menu at fast food restaurants.

There is no excuse for poor hygiene either. Everyone should shower, and wear deodorant. I can understand not getting braces because they cost thousands of dollars, but you can still take care of your teeth even if they aren't perfect. I had braces and I brush my teeth about 5 times a day. I would rather kiss a girl with crooked teeth that were white and clean than a girl with straight teeth that were yellow and had bad breath.

You don't have to dress in designer $100 jeans to dress nice. I have seen guys who wear only walmart clothes and they dress better than guys who wear brand names.

When I was young and I would tell my parents about a problem I had they wouldn't coddle me they said very bluntly "What are you going to do about it" I really believe everyone both men and women can be a 9-10 on the scale if they actually get off the couch and improve themselves.

 

[positivity_injection]

why are you giving advice that even YOU yourself can't follow???????

 

[iqqi]

I can't believe this post is from Stuka. Did someone hijack your account again!?

I am going to have to rep you for this thread. Don't let it be the last time.

 

[stuka1939]

I can't believe this post is from Stuka. Did someone hijack your account again!?

I am going to have to rep you for this thread. Don't let it be the last time.

No it is me. I am surprised you guys did not lambast me because my "looks" were mentioned in my thread.

Seriously though, the lower 1/3 of your face (jaw size/shape, straightness of a teeth) plays such a huge role in facial aesthetics it is not even funny.

The majority of unattractive people I have seen out in a public have a moderate/severe disrepancy in this area.

Also, the size and shape of the nose if of less importance than we think. The lower 1/3 of the face (mouth area) is the most important.

If you feel you have a problem in this area, for godsakes go get it fixed.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Stop it please . Dont get started again .

You just got started good . Dont ruin it now .

 

[playa99]

moral of the post: get off your sorry ass and set about improving yourself in anyway shape or form.
Good post though keep it up.
Dont spoil it lol