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Quit idolizing Chad/Tyrone and perceiving them as High Value

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With how **** Gen Z and millennial women are and how a divorce can basically bankrupt you, being able to abstain from women should be actually be considered high value imho. The most red pill experience I've ever had was acquiring the looks to qualify for dates with these women. All of these women are the same and need therapy at the end of the day so you are not missing out!

This Kevin Samuels interview is the perfect example of the mentality modern women.


This girl is delusional, has a kid out of wedlock, lazy, overweight, and over entitled but she wants some professional sports player(says 400k guy but we all know they type of 400k guy she will only go for lol) to come sweep her off her feet and save her. Just imagine being the dad to that kid and having to interact with that woman for the rest of your life. Guys get so mad when a girl ghosts or flakes on them, but I just see some crazy instable hoe that didn't get the chance of trapping me with a kid and stealing my resources. No high value man has the time and energy to deal with a girl like this. Yes, Chads and Tyrones might be living it up in their early twenties, but the ones that don't wise up will end up with STDs, emotional/age wise damage from dealing with thots, charged of sexual assault/rape, divorce raped, and multiple kids out of wedlock. The Wolf of Wallstreet displays the perfect example of a Chad in his prime to hitting the wall hard. The particular bed room scene at the end is the most depressing downfall of a man I have ever seen lol. Essentially, Chad and Tyrones have the same wall lifespan as a typical woman, so view it as that. When you make the decision of intermingling with thots and mentally unstable women then you are basically playing with fire.
 

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Quit idolizing Chad/Tyrone and perceiving them as High Value
I dunno boyos. :oops:

I never had this issue in the first place nor have my friends. I think this is a AFC/incel/nerd issue more than a real issue of thinking "What chad thunderc'ock does or do not do" and comparing with that etc.

Comparing with others is sort of beta in my mind and way of thinking. It just shows how insecure you are inside your core personality or ego if you like if have that need to validate yourself against other persons.

People spend way too much time on thinking of others and comparing themselves; instead of focus and working on themselves instead and not giving a f'uck what other people think.

Now with that said I might as well throw this golden nugget in the boxing ring... :cool:


How To Not Give a F'uck
The problem free philosophy


About the philosophy - To not give a f'uck:

"Not giving a f'uck" is an idea and a philosophy that recognizes the absurdity of attaching desire to any idea, object, person, etc. We strive to promote this way of life by offering advice and inspiring others to improve their lives. Why live a limited life when life should be abundant and rich. We all wish to fulfill our life and reach our life's goals, but very few of us make it because of our own limitations that we have set upon our selves. Our philosophy show how to get there and free your mind. Be yourself and don't give a f'uck - express yourself!


How do you start not giving a f'uck?


Why should you not give a f'uck?

  • Don’t ignore the problems you face. Rather, come to terms with them.

  • Realize your insignificance amidst the rest of the universe – It is the epitome of narcissism to think that our individual actions have any consequence in a universe where the entire Milky Way Galaxy is a tiny spec on the map. Likewise, most if not everything, people take issue with is meaningless in the grand scheme of things

  • Go with the flow. Let things happen and don’t try to change the inevitable. This is lesson #1 from Taoism.

  • Be confident. If you are confident in yourself then you won’t worry about meaningless criticism from others. How do you gain confidence? Know that you are born unique and have your own special gifts that make you who you are. If that doesn’t work, then fake it till you make it. Dress in business clothes; pretend to have a million bucks. You will feel confident, and thus, you will act confident. And then you will feel more confident. It’s a cycle. A lot of confidence comes from experience, and when you don’t have any, you can at least fake it the first time around.

  • Get your mind right. Get motivated. It takes a lot of courage to go out and dive head first into something you’ve never done before. But you have to start somewhere. Get back to that feeling you used to get when you accomplished a task that took you a long time to reach. Put yourself in that state of mind, listen to some music to pump you up, and just do it.

  • Practice meditation. Meditation is used to train your mind into developing a particular mindset.

  • Be grateful. Your existence itself is due to chance. You are the result of billions of years of evolution and a seemingly infinite number of coincidences. Life itself is a gift that you have been given. Stop giving a f'uck about s'hit that doesn’t matter.

  • Death should be your constant reminder to make the most of your situation. Every second that passes, you are dying and you have less time to do what you have always wanted to do. Don’t have any regrets when you take your last few gasps of air.

  • Have a near death experience – This is not recommended. But if you were fortunate to have one, frivolous worries and concerns wouldn’t seem to matter as much.

  • Understand fear – Most fear is irrational. Fear is the result of your brain jumping into cyclical thought patterns and then producing neurotransmitters that you perceive as fear. But if you really analyze what’s going on, you will see your brain is automatically jumping to conclusions that may or may not happen. And if your fear is realized, is it really as bad as you had envisioned? Fear is your enemy. Recognize it, and know that you can remove it immediately.

  • Reframe the situation. Turn what seems like a bad scenario into a not so bad one. Girl told you that you were ugly? You just prevented a lot of time and money being wasted on a horrible person.

  • Face your fear – You will notice that fear gradually subsides as you have spent more and more time facing it. The 2nd and 3rd time around won’t be nearly be as the 1st. The unexpectedness of what may happen is no longer present and you realize that it’s not as bad as you had originally thought. And a lot of your fear was probably based on potential outcomes that were envisioned but never came to fruition.

  • Don’t have expectations – You shouldn’t give a f'uck about outcomes. Do what you love. If you set the bar too low, you will be content with mediocrity. If you set the bar too high, motivation decreases if the goal seems too unrealistic. Do what you love and do it to the best of your ability. And if you enjoy what you do, you will continue to do it regardless of success or failure. Improvement is inevitable as you gradually learn from experience and correct your mistakes.

  • Repeat a mantra – A mantra is something you repeat to yourself to remind yourself to stay on course. For example, you could tell yourself “Just do it” or “F'uck it,” before attempting to do something you are afraid of.

  • Punish yourself for failing and reward yourself for success. And remember, it only works if you actually go through with your punishment. You could try something as simple as snapping your wrist with a rubber band or you could hand over $100 to a friend if you fail.

  • Accept that you have no control over many things. You don’t control your death or the fact not everyone loves you. You must accept this rather than try and change something that you cannot. With this understanding comes the freedom of acting without being concerned with things outside of your control.

  • Ask yourself what you will think about this moment 10 years from now. Will you remember it? Will you regret that you let your fear take over? Will it seem as significant then as it does in this exact moment?

  • Live in the moment. The past is gone and can never be experienced again. The future is an expectation which may never come to fruition. The only moment we can truly experience and enjoy is the present. Most of our fears and sadness come from reliving the past or predicting what may happen in the future; living in the present removes all these negative emotions.
  • Understand that the ego is an illusion. It is a flaw of the human condition that causes us to overestimate our own value and succumb to fear/greed.

  • Don’t give a f'uck about mistakes. Mistakes are learning tools. They force you to evolve into something better that will no longer make those same mistakes.

  • Really want change. The only place from the bottom is up. If you really want something to happen, you can make an effort. Any effort is an improvement. Challenge yourself. Try something new. Embrace change.

  • Start acting instead of thinking. Just do it. Not giving a f'uck is like a switch. Turn it on. That’s all it really takes. It’s a habit. Try to improve on it everyday.
 
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How do you start not giving a f'uck?
  • There are so many things that you could be worrying about. Once you are done worrying about one issue, another arises. Will there ever be an end to this cycle? Why worry, when instead, you could just decide to not give a f'uck.

  • Giving a f'uck about issues that can’t be changed leads to nothing but misery. If we can’t change an outcome, rather than worrying about it, just make the appropriate changes. However, if nothing can be done worrying changes nothing and only results in stress.

  • We often give ourselves unrealistic expectations. If you have unrealistic expectations, your motivation to accomplish a task becomes reduced if you are unable to see yourself accomplishing it. More importantly, goals become unnecessary when you do your best. If you give it your best effort, you can’t possibly expect a different outcome than what actually happened. Furthermore, a goal will either limit your potential if set too low or reduce motivation if set too high. If you truly love what you do, the motivation to accomplish tasks is independent of failure. Continuing to give your best effort will come naturally and improvement is inevitable.

  • Won’t that lead to complacency? If you are fulfilled by watching TV, then yes you will be a bum. You may be motivated by saving endangered animals from a burning rainforest or killing noobs in Modern Warfare. For most of us there will be something that brings excitement to our day and this should motivate us to perform that particular task. If you do whatever it is that you love, persevering through failure and struggle won’t really feel all that horrible. After all, you are doing what you love. It is something you will continue to do regardless of success or failure and regardless of rewards or not. This drive is undying and will propel you to constantly improve. It does wither away when faced with defeat or obstacles. If what motivates you is something external, such as money or power, any setback will result in decreased motivation because you know that outcome is less likely to be realized.

  • Other people’s opinions do not matter. Other’s perceptions of you are based on their own experiences and are often inaccurate since they do not know you as well as you know yourself. So why should it matter if someone else thinks negatively of you? Your own opinion is the most important opinion of all and its weight should be heavier than the combined weight of every other opinion combined.

  • Your life will improve. We all want that right? Things you usually worry about will no longer concern you. Getting mad that YouTube places a 5 second ad before each clip shouldn’t enrage you nearly as much as before. When you rid yourself of these negative and unconstructive thoughts, you will be left in your natural state of happiness.

  • You will be more motivated to do what you have always wanted to do. Those irrational fears that prevented you from accomplishing your dreams are no longer present. You will act on your own impulses rather than feeling obligated to fulfilling someone else’s desires. Whatever it is you choose to do will lead to more happiness than if it was done for someone else.

  • You will have fun. You won’t be afraid to try new things. Think about all the opportunities you missed out on because you were afraid. You could have dated the model that smiled at you or visited that exotic country when you had the chance, but you were too scared to go through with it. If you avoided standup comedy out of fear of getting booed, then another comedy gig may not present itself to you. And these risks you open yourself up to can lead to more opportunities later on. If you play video games all day, you will never realize that maybe you get more of a rush by hiking a mountain.

  • You will broaden your horizons. You won’t be scared to try things that you probably should. You are no longer stuck in your comfort zone. You will try new things, you will have new experiences, expand your consciousness, you will open yourself to more opportunities, and your personality will grow. You won’t fear rejection when going to meet new friends, and subsequently you will make more friends (many of which will be better than the ones you currently have).

  • You will have more self-confidence. Whatever insecurities you have will vanish when you don’t give a f'uck about being different or unique. Someone’s opinion of you is too minor to affect your mood.

  • You will have a more authentic personality. It will conform to who you truly are. You won’t be changing your personality based on what others think of you and you won’t be scared to stand for what you believe in and express who you are. Since you speak your mind without fear, those of a like-mind will naturally gravitate towards you and those that disagree will fade away.

  • You will have more honest interactions with your friends and family. These are the people who you need to be honest with as they are first ones to help you in a time of need. And you will have more meaningful conversations. You will get right to the point and say what you like and don’t like.

  • You will take control of your life. You won’t make excuses. You won’t waste your time with inconsequential worries and focus more on the important things that can improve your life.
 

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With how **** Gen Z and millennial women are and how a divorce can basically bankrupt you, being able to abstain from women should be actually be considered high value imho. The most red pill experience I've ever had was acquiring the looks to qualify for dates with these women. All of these women are the same and need therapy at the end of the day so you are not missing out!

This Kevin Samuels interview is the perfect example of the mentality modern women.


This girl is delusional, has a kid out of wedlock, lazy, overweight, and over entitled but she wants some professional sports player(says 400k guy but we all know they type of 400k guy she will only go for lol) to come sweep her off her feet and save her. Just imagine being the dad to that kid and having to interact with that woman for the rest of your life. Guys get so mad when a girl ghosts or flakes on them, but I just see some crazy instable hoe that didn't get the chance of trapping me with a kid and stealing my resources. No high value man has the time and energy to deal with a girl like this. Yes, Chads and Tyrones might be living it up in their early twenties, but the ones that don't wise up will end up with STDs, emotional/age wise damage from dealing with thots, charged of sexual assault/rape, divorce raped, and multiple kids out of wedlock. The Wolf of Wallstreet displays the perfect example of a Chad in his prime to hitting the wall hard. The particular bed room scene at the end is the most depressing downfall of a man I have ever seen lol. Essentially, Chad and Tyrones have the same wall lifespan as a typical woman, so view it as that. When you make the decision of intermingling with thots and mentally unstable women then you are basically playing with fire.
Women can get sex easily. Even the ugly, stupid and unattractive ones. What they can't easily is a man to marry them, which deep down is what most of them really want.
 
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Yeah not all of us want to go MGTOW, yes women suck today but what are your other options?
Nothing lol, but understand women will always be your Achilles heel whether you want to admit it or not

Women can get sex easily. Even the ugly, stupid and unattractive ones. What they can't easily is a man to marry them, which deep down is what most of them really want.
This is why they want celebs and high status men because these men are basically kids with a bunch of money. The strict guy in his 30s-40s that had to earn his money, they don't want because they know this guy will not put up with a lot of **** from them. The old rich guy just wants a hot warm body near him, so they will settle for this guy second choice.
 
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Man, you have to pick up your balls and accept that life as a man is a competitive struggle. Nothing is fair, nothing is giving to you for free where women are concerned. You have to fight for it, and Yes plenty of other men are better than you and will be chosen first. You will lose far more by taking yourself out of the competition though. You'll become a bitter incel.

MGTOW is not the answer. Becoming better is the answer. Accepting female nature is the answer. Accepting your burden of performance as a Man is the answer.

Don't simp, don't be thirsty, be masculine, go to the gym and you will find plenty of women who will let you bang her. If you learn how to Game them then you'll even end up banging hot ones.
I do not think yall older guys understand that us younger MGTOWs are not the same as the older Mgtows. The older Mgtows were either guys that went through some horrible trauma with a woman such as divorce rape or are incels that hide behind a screensaver like Sandman and have to bang peasant rice farmer women.

Younger MGTOWs are in shape and can get women, but we have figured out that women are a liability because game, money, or status cannot tame a Gen Z/early millennial woman. These incels or beta guys y'all keep portraying me as are on onlyfans or in relationships. Gen Z women are actually more open to dating these type of men because they want a slave that worships them and lets them get away with their toxic behavior. I seriously do not think you watched the video either. I'm not trying to waste my time and energy on gaming a girl that behaves like that!!! The father of that child will have to deal with that ***** for the rest of his life because he couldn't abstain from some cheap p-sleeve, but but he had game though. The guys that do are the real simps and betas Imho.
 
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Dude, you can't get women. You ain't fooling anybody here.

...with all your threads about not being able to get 2nd dates.

It's so funny that you say stuff like "I'm not wasting my time and energy gaming a girl like that."

This is usually what Beta males who know they'll get rejected say to make themselves feel better.

We'll anxiously await your next thread.
I thought you blocked me and if I couldn't get girls then I would be complaining about not getting girls not how ***** they are to be around. Want to know how to get girls on OLD? Get 12% bf, take shirtless pictures, and ask them if they live in your city, if they say yes then go for the number. BAM, you will stop now lol. I don't have to use game or **** lol.

I can go around banging peasant rice girls from the Philippines, favela Latin American women, single moms, fat women, and etc and go on here and boast about my lay count like you and the older guys, but I don't do that ****. I go for hot single American women without any and fight the fight and I like to vent about how toxic they are. Do I get laid every week? Do I wake up to the women I have sex with and have zero regrets...Yes lol
 
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I thought you blocked me and if I couldn't get girls then I would be complaining about not getting girls not how ***** they are to be around. Want to know how to get girls on OLD? Get 12% bf, take shirtless pictures, and ask them if they live in your city, if they say yes then go for the number. BAM, you will stop now lol. I don't have to use game or **** lol.

I can go around banging peasant rice girls from the Philippines, favela Latin American women, single moms, fat women, and etc and go on here and boast about my lay count like you and the older guys, but I don't do that ****. I go for hot single American women without any and fight the fight and I like to vent about how toxic they are. Do I get laid every week? Do I wake up to the women I have sex with and have zero regrets...Yes lol
So 36.4% bf wont work?
 
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No you don't.

I like how you edited your post and expanded it. Originally it just said 'I thought you blocked me."

It seems as though I'm inside your head. Just like the 6s that won't give you a second date.
I do that with every post so you aren't special lol. I got laid this weekend, where's my cookie. Do I need to make a topic and use Alpha, frame, and manipulative feminine language as much as possible with the bolded text?

I suggest that your goal should just be to pump and dump these vapid new-generation women. I bang plenty of women in their early 20's and the vast majority are extremely annoying, self-absorbed and not worth any more than a few pumps before discarding them. However, you do sometimes come across cool chicks that are worth 3 or 4 pumps.

If you're looking for an LTR in 2021 then you're fvcked. Get over it. Women aren't offering much more than their pvssies anymore. Stop taking women seriously, because women are pretty ridiculous by-and-large. Women should just be seen as your plaything, and treated as such (and they like being treated that way too so it's a win-win).

Women don't actually like simps and betas on OnlyFans. They just need them to fund their do-nothing InstaHo lifestyles.

If you want to blame anyone for the state of women today, then blame men. Men have collectively failed women by their ungodly thirsty and supplicating behavior. It's grotesque, and if I was a woman I'd be treating men like sh!t too.
I don't agree with the Pump and Dump strategy on OLD. I'm not trying to get a STD or my truck broken in to over some low quality p-sleeve. I vouch these women first. However, I think this is completely different than a ONS from a bar or party.

So 36.4% bf wont work?
If you are a white dude then wear PFGs, have a dead animal in a picture, and talk about how redneck you are lol.
 

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Younger MGTOWs are in shape and can get women, but we have figured out that women are a liability because game, money, or status cannot tame a Gen Z/early millennial woman. T
Doesn't matter.
Life is still a game and you need to play it. Accept it and act upon it.

The game has always been there for all of us (Where women are liability and not an asset etc. and men have to step on their toes to become the best version of themselves), and also been the same with slight changes over the years, but it is still the same game.

Whining and complaining about it like most millennials/Gen Z doomers does on the internet will not advance you forward.
People like above in the doomer video are just freaking losers which rather complain than actually make themselves accountable for their life decisions.
 
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I do that with every post so you aren't special lol. I got laid this weekend, where's my cookie. Do I need to make a topic and use Alpha, frame, and manipulative feminine language as much as possible with the bolded text?



I don't agree with the Pump and Dump strategy on OLD. I'm not trying to get a STD or my truck broken in to over some low quality p-sleeve. I vouch these women first. However, I think this is completely different than a ONS from a bar or party.



If you are a white dude then wear PFGs, have a dead animal in a picture, and talk about how redneck you are lol.
What would lead you to think I am white if everyone knows I am mixed (aka black) and have a black mom? People who post about whitemaxxing generally are not white.
 

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What would lead you to think I am white if everyone knows I am mixed (aka black) and have a black mom? People who post about whitemaxxing generally are not white.
I f'ucking hate it when ppl start using color as a power card because it doesn't fu'cking matter what color you are. It's retarded.
 
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What would lead you to think I am white if everyone knows I am mixed (aka black) and have a black mom? People who post about whitemaxxing generally are not white.
Why would a black guy have daffy duck as an avatar lol?

Doesn't matter.
Life is still a game and you need to play it. Accept it and act upon it.

The game has always been there for all of us (Where women are liability and not an asset etc. and men have to step on their toes to become the best version of themselves), and also been the same with slight changes over the years, but it is still the same game.

Whining and complaining about it like most millennials/Gen Z doomers does on the internet will not advance you forward.
I ain't whining and complaining, I'm advocating men to not play a game that's toxic towards them so women so we can turn things around. If giving out a huge warning that it is getting way worse for men is complaining then I give up lol. You can go and get divorce raped by a 5 ft 6 girl 190 lb single mom that thinks she deserves Steph Curry because you gamed her, be my guest lol.
 

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Why would a black guy have daffy duck as an avatar lol?
The intent of that avatar was because there were too many contentious threads that were made on the "other" section of this board, and I had black avatars on that included a well known black actors. As I kept getting into fights with other members of the board on political and social issues, I decided to change the avatar in such a way to lighten the tone of the atmosphere.

It appears the mods of this board have taken a more aggressive stand to banning political and social threads and I've simply neglected to update this avatar to reflect the changing atmosphere of this board. But, thanks for pointing that out, it's something that I'll be looking into.
 

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I f'ucking hate it when ppl start using color as a power card because it doesn't fu'cking matter what color you are. It's retarded.
In the discussion about women, then women's preference in the market place dictates men's SMV, and whiteness in looks tends to add points on the looks side of LMS, and other races tend to do nothing, at best, and subtract at worst. T
 

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I'm advocating men to not play a game that's toxic towards them so women
Why do you remind me of the Gillette shi't commercial calling all men toxic?

I honestly think you have the incorrect mindset.

We men are not toxic against women. Advocating that in any place where you have guys hanging out will not make you any friends and will get you into big trouble. I get quite pissed off too when someone talks about this "toxicity PS/feminist bullcra'p".

No one of all the guys I know acts that way and certainly not myself..

Yes there are a few guys that are messed up, but they are few and there will always be a few rotten apples in the bunch. But so it is also with toxic women that treat their guys badly. This is quite a stupid subject to be frank.
 
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In the discussion about women, then women's preference in the market place dictates men's SMV, and whiteness in looks tends to add points on the looks side of LMS, and other races tend to do nothing, at best, and subtract at worst. T
I dunno.
For example:
Latinos are seen as steaming hot by chicks (Take Enriche Iglesiás as a prime example):

and black guys are sought after by chicks for their big bananas lol etc., (Well seriously they see black guys as very hot too, Lenny Kravitz as another example):

I don't think you can mix it up that easily into categories because each one has its perks and statuses. It is way more complex than that which is also another reason why I hate it when people use the color card. It is not that that easy, but a very much a more complex subject that you cannot divide into different colors.
 
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Why would a black guy have daffy duck as an avatar lol?
Why is that a question in the first place?
Why should not a person regardless of color or whatever not use Daffy if he or she wants to and likes it?

Using an avatar doesn't say sh'it about his/her race or anything else for that matter...

That is just a really dumb unnecessary statement.
 
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Why is that a question in the first place?
Why should not person regardless of color or whatever not use Daffy if he or she wants to and likes it?

Using a avatar doesn't say sh'it about his/her race or anything else for that matter...

That is just a really dumb unnecessary statement.
chill dude
 
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