You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No cookies. No bl0wjobs. No sex.Do they have cookies?
Damn, you’re starting to make me sorry I don’t have to pay now…No cookies. No *******s. No sex.
Just a $80 handjob after a very long, drawn out massage.
Is this $80 for the massage and handjob, or is it $80 on top of the massage? If so, how much is the massage?Just a $80 handjob after a very long, drawn out massage.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think that the reason Frog's threads are interesting is because he is different. Like Big Neil, he's a character. He doesn't think like the rest of us, and that's what makes him unique. When I first came here, it seemed to me almost like it was a cult, like they were brainwashing everybody to think the same way. I prefer to see a variety of different personalities and approaches here.You guys r wasting time trolling this bionic noob brain buffoon.
Edit: If he changes an iota of character from any of his threads to better himself, then I'm all for it and will cheer him on like no other on this forum. Fvck I'll even defend him if I could see a modicum of changes.
Epic fail. Stop paying for sex. Get an ugly girl to jerk you off for free while ypu close your eyes, and that would be a big step upward in your life.Just a $80 handjob.
I agree Big Neil is interesting, warped from the norm but still interesting with really good stories abt his love life. He did have a couple.I think that the reason Frog's threads are interesting is because he is different. Like Big Neil, he's a character. He doesn't think like the rest of us, and that's what makes him unique. When I first came here, it seemed to me almost like it was a cult, like they were brainwashing everybody to think the same way. I prefer to see a variety of different personalities and approaches here.
I won't pay for sex and I'm not into strippers. But some people are. Rollo used to say that it took elite game to bang strippers. I don't know if that's true or not, I don't really care enough to find out. Frog doesn't appear to want to change, so why should we demand that he does? I mean it's not like I agree with him on much, but I'm going to do what I want to do. Who am I to tell someone else what to do? Besides, somebody's got to keep the hookers in business.
That’s because when people start with you, you are in control of the situation. You have the power. They are catering to your needs.Maybe people will ask me about it or something. I can do good in conversations when people start them with me and if I feel like talking.
Strippers? Come on bro, step your game up. Be professional. Associate with high class, high educated girls. Strippers are 2 steps from doing porn. Not the type of want to bring home to mom.I've had so many conversations with strippers over the past few weeks, I can't even remember them all.
Hope you do it bro.What I do during the day (flip houses) is impressive. Let's fast forward 1 year and say I've gotten several profitable flips under my belt. If you're going to respond and tell me that's not going to happen, then don't bother because you know nothing about it.
Some men love young Kim K. Some men love young Sharon Stone. Some men love young Jessica Alba. Some men love young Madonna.Also, lately I've been unsure about my looks a lot. Growing up, I always had the oponion of myself that I was good looking because that's what people told me. Nowadays, there will be times when I'm talking to a good looking girl and she says I have nice eyes or a good looking face, etc. and there will be no problem. But other times, I get insulted and ignored as soon as I send a pic. I realize that different girls have different tastes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Ugly is also in the eye of the beholder.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I can see where that comes from if you are approaching a woman who works as a stripper outside of her work and attempting to seduce her as you would any other woman. She's probably fed up with dealing with horn-dog guys and also knows she's very attractive. Hence it will take elite game to get with that girl, because physically she's high value and mentally she's disinclined to quick sex most likely.Rollo used to say that it took elite game to bang strippers. I don't know if that's true or not, I don't really care enough to find out. Frog doesn't appear to want to change, so why should we demand that he does? I mean it's not like I agree with him on much, but I'm going to do what I want to do. Who am I to tell someone else what to do? Besides, somebody's got to keep the hookers in business.
Believe me, I'm going to blow the lid off the establishment with these results. Maybe we should host a conference?Please report back this is quite the study you have underway.
I'm quiet because I'm introverted.You are quiet because 1, something has happoened in your past that makes you have your guard up 2 you lack confidence and 3. You aren't getting any practice opening people. Because you sit in strip clubs that takes away the problem of approaching since the girls approach you because that's their job. Watch this video and give it a chance.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ok well whatever. Most women like extroverts, they don't like the quiet guy who sits in the corner at the party and seems like he is scared to interact with others. So if you want women you gotta imnprove your social skills. And when conversations are boring you have to pretend to sound interested. Develop some charm.I'm quiet because I'm introverted.
I have tons of confidence. 99% of girls I see aren't even worth my time.
Plus, girls usually have nothing interesting to say.
Are you that much of a fvcking retard to see that I will put it back on the market after the siding is changed?I once came "this close" to making $1.6 billion. I was only 4 numbers off the needed winning numbers.
I hope this helps.
Thank you. That post was more than helpful and much appreciated.Are you that much of a fvcking retard to see that I will put it back on the market after the siding is changed?
Really? We can buy the Powerball too up here in Canada as well.I once came "this close" to making $1.6 billion. I was only 4 numbers off the needed winning numbers.
I hope this helps.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.