"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quicktip: How to stay in the "alpha-state"

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This is said many times before but it has to be said periodically so people won't forget :)

You can feel the alpha-state immediately by just implementing these two easy habits.

1. Don't masturbate for at least 4 days. If you can, don't masturbate at all. Masturbation puts off the inner fire and puts the body in a flabby-mode. It doesn't matter if you have all the PUA skills down your head; masturbation is a state-killer and affects your game.

2. Do some really hard exercise 2-3 times per week. The exercise should be so hard that when you stop you feel bad and almost throwing up. Boxing, kickboxing or any martial art will do, as well as a really hard gym session. Try doing squats to get that sick feeling faster :)

You gain:

-You start to live in the moment. You don't think that much. You start to focus more on fun.
-There's no hesitation and your actions won't be timid.
-You feel sure about yourself, everything you do and say feels very natural to you. You are in the alpha-state now.
-After really hard workout your chick is very willing to take care of your body :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJoseCantosie

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I think being in alpha-mode should be 24/7...its who u are. No need to put it on, thats wat i think should happen.
 

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sometimes i need to put it on. yeah i do notice that 'flabby' feeling after i masturbate... haha. I love workin out. I just feel on top of the world after that. That's probably the single thing that helps me the most...

The worst thing you can do is get 'bored'. that's when negative or 'what if' thoughts creep in subconsciously. Helps to live in the moment.
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Once ur in a relationship or in close company with a girl, and something catches u off guard, and she sees that ur not as alpha as u appeared...it'll bite u in the ass. Work on developing the alphaness in you. I wouldn't call when u feel great, in alpha mode...it just means ur relaxed and energized. Being alpha is a long term state of mind, not a short term.
 

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Nice tips, I like.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jamescr73

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Masturbation causes an instant drop of testosterone in your body, whereas working out causes it to increase. Thats where you get the "alphaness" from. You feel more like a man, because you have more testosterone pumping through your veins. When your fuking a chick, and you blow your load, afterward you dont feel as manly and powerful as you did a minute earlier when you were rearranging her organs. Thats because of this drop in test. Good advice, but practice being the same all the time, even if you havent been to the gym in a week.
 

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LionOne said:
This is said many times before but it has to be said periodically so people won't forget :)

You can feel the alpha-state immediately by just implementing these two easy habits.

1. Don't masturbate for at least 4 days. If you can, don't masturbate at all. Masturbation puts off the inner fire and puts the body in a flabby-mode. It doesn't matter if you have all the PUA skills down your head; masturbation is a state-killer and affects your game.

2. Do some really hard exercise 2-3 times per week. The exercise should be so hard that when you stop you feel bad and almost throwing up. Boxing, kickboxing or any martial art will do, as well as a really hard gym session. Try doing squats to get that sick feeling faster :)

You gain:

-You start to live in the moment. You don't think that much. You start to focus more on fun.
-There's no hesitation and your actions won't be timid.
-You feel sure about yourself, everything you do and say feels very natural to you. You are in the alpha-state now.
-After really hard workout your chick is very willing to take care of your body :)
Very true about the masturbation. That's why I totally quit masturbation... got to the point of spending 40 bucks on a porn blocker just in case. I go to the gym 6 days out of the week, to build mind and body. The I-don't-give-a-**** feeling that I get after an intense work out is just so fvcking awsome. I notice that girls notice my crazy a$$ ****iness too when I don't give a fvck. I love it.
 
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