"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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quick tips please date today

wh01987

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Alright me and my friend (a) are meeting two girls today to hangout .. problem i have 1 other friend (b) who i told could come but should i ditch him becuase 2 girls and 3 guys that would cut down my chances.. but the friend who i would have to ditch (b) is kind of a dork would that make me look better or make it seem like i hangout with losers? friend (a) is way ebtter looking then me so if i have (b) go would that make me look better
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PiHiPlaya

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you invited him, stick with your decisions. Don't try to ditch him, it will make you look like an *******.

you shouldn't worried to much, just live the Don Juan way and you won't have to worry about less of chances. The chances are already in your favor since you know what to do. 2 Girls, 3 guys isn't too bad.
 

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It shouldn't matter how many guys are there or what they look like. If you know what you're doing and your game is on, it won't matter. Girl's will be attracted to the 'alpha male' of the group not the wuss bags. Which are you?
 
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