quick tip

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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theNEWDJ

Don Juan

Apr 10, 2005

the other night this worked well for me...

I was sitting on a couch with this chick i had just met we were kind of flirting, but I wasn't sure. She got up off the couch and left the room to get a drink or to talk to her friends or something. So i spread out, taking up the whole couch, When she came back she told me to move over, but i just smiled and i said nahh. So she was pretty much had to lay with me because she didn't want to sit on the floor. Anyway it worked out well cause i started playing with her hair and then made out with her on that couch ha ha ha

- if your on a couch spread out

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