quick tip

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

theNEWDJ

Don Juan

Apr 10, 2005

the other night this worked well for me...

I was sitting on a couch with this chick i had just met we were kind of flirting, but I wasn't sure. She got up off the couch and left the room to get a drink or to talk to her friends or something. So i spread out, taking up the whole couch, When she came back she told me to move over, but i just smiled and i said nahh. So she was pretty much had to lay with me because she didn't want to sit on the floor. Anyway it worked out well cause i started playing with her hair and then made out with her on that couch ha ha ha

- if your on a couch spread out

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.