"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WaRpEd

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Hey, it's been a while since i've been on this sight, i took some time off to help improve my game, and i learned many things. Well i'd like to share one of those "things" I feel may help a few of you. Now I dunno how much people have written about this in the past, but it's really late, I'm really tired...I don't care ;)

you ready...here it is...Set Goals for yourself. (wow, bet you've never had that said to you before. :rolleyes: ) oh but here comes the fun part, if you do not accomplish those goals you "punish yourself". May it be fifty pushups, running a mile, or smashing your head against the wall really hard five times (i wouldn't recomend that one) you must do something if you don't accomplish those goals instead of just saying "Oh no, I didn't do it, better luck next time"

later-WaRpEd
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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big_jeffry

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good post, the best thing you said there was set goals and have fun. remember dj's. dj'ing is a game- and you are the prize.
 
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