"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WaRpEd

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Hey, it's been a while since i've been on this sight, i took some time off to help improve my game, and i learned many things. Well i'd like to share one of those "things" I feel may help a few of you. Now I dunno how much people have written about this in the past, but it's really late, I'm really tired...I don't care ;)

you ready...here it is...Set Goals for yourself. (wow, bet you've never had that said to you before. :rolleyes: ) oh but here comes the fun part, if you do not accomplish those goals you "punish yourself". May it be fifty pushups, running a mile, or smashing your head against the wall really hard five times (i wouldn't recomend that one) you must do something if you don't accomplish those goals instead of just saying "Oh no, I didn't do it, better luck next time"

later-WaRpEd
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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big_jeffry

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good post, the best thing you said there was set goals and have fun. remember dj's. dj'ing is a game- and you are the prize.
 
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