"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quick Tip: WWAMD (What Would A Man Do?)

md3sign

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This is something that has worked wonders for me lately. Any time I'm about to say something stupid, do something stupid, reply to a text, prepare to make a move, or take any action in life, women related or not, I VERY quickly ask myself - what would a real man say/do in this situation?

He would say less, and do more.

Learn to take a quick step back from everything you say and do (within reason of course - overanalyzing is just as bad as underanalyzing) and reframe it to another person. Imagine some other guy saying or doing the same thing. Would you respect him as a man? Would you admire him? Or would he seem like a chump?

Staying in little contact with a girl in-between dates allows you to think about these things and act accordingly.

Examples:

- Don't have text message conversations with girls. If she texts you, text her back. Keep it short and sweet and schedule a get together, then stop.

- If she calls you, same thing. 5 minutes, ask her about her day, schedule a get together and get off the phone.

- Don't be afraid to take the initiative to text a girl or call her, but do it to schedule a get together, not just to "talk".

Would a real man just want to talk with a girl? NO! That's what other girls are for. So keep it short and sweet and let her miss you. Show her through your actions you don't care for banal conversation. You want to see her, maybe go out and have some fun, but definitely sex her.

Try it!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aussiegoat55

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Yeah, whenever you're in a sticky situation, in confusion about something or dont know what to do, ask yourself, WWARealMD?

You get pulled over by the police.

WWARealMD?...Be calm, friendly, no stress.

There is a fire in an apartment building.

WWARealMD? Step up and be the hero, guide people to safety.

Like today, I locked my keys in my car, I could have stressed, cursed, and acted pissed, but instead I maintained grace under pressure, kept my composure, and solved the problem.

Go to this website http://www.holysmoke.org/fem/fem0290.htm and just try to apply it to your life daily in one, two, or several ways.
 

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md3sign said:
He would say less, and do more.

Try it!
Since you have to ask yourself every time what a real man would do, you are obviously still dealing with confidence issues about what it means to be a real man. Stop asking yourself what to do and start being a real man.

PS. You say a lot in your post for a guy who says real man would say less and do more. That's a big contradiction to all those words you are using. Furthermore, speech is a form of action, so to say he should say less and do more is in itself a contradiction.
 

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lol say less, do more should be my motto, or speak softly and carry a big stick.
 

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Mjazz said:
lol say less, do more should be my motto, or speak softly and carry a big stick.

OR 'Speak softly and carry a big d!ck." Either one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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