quick tip..let her have the last reply

[Unprez]

I dont post much but i think everyone could benefit from this its been told countless times again and again in various ways (eg push and pull) but only now do i realize how powerful it is after seeing the results.....which to just let her have the last reply! .... through msn, txt , email whatever the case may be .... go through a conversation and then after say 2 or 3 emails or txt back and forth just stop...wait a week or somethin (unless she starts a new conversation on her own b4)and just initiate again ... i gues it really makes them squirm when u ignore them and there desire for u just magnifies exponentially.... most guys know this but just a quick reminder to those who forgot its importance!

 

[Juando]

Good one.

I know this one but sometimes forget by getting enthused in the moment and
blurting it all out, then wondering why they disappeared.

You've already made the point but it's worth repeating how satisfying it is to have HER come sniffing around for you after you've lowered your profile...

Or, send out a "feeler", a quick contact after a silent spell, and wait and see what comes back. Like fishing.

 

[Halloween]

I noticed this, and at some level knew it was true, but I wouldn't have been able to lay it out this clearly. Good post.

A couple other guidelines I'll submit:

(1) NEVER write more than she did. For instance on email, if she writes two paragraphs, you write one. If she sends four sentences, you send two or three.

... this might be getting too abstract, but I think this creates the implication that YOUR time spent emailing her is worth more than HER time spent emailing you. You're adding value to yourself.

(2) Don't feel like you have to ask her a question in each communication. I used to do this because I thought it would "guilt" her into replying in order to answer my question(s). Sometimes I'd send a girl four questions in one email. This is textbook AFC behavior!!!

...A much better tactic is to make (cute/funny) misinterpretations, tease her, challenge her, or just be vague about juicy/important details of interesting topics (refer back to point 1).

 

[Unprez]

Excellent addition!... in similar respective to #1 i would do this thing wr if it took her 3 days to reply to my msg i would reply 4-5 days later after recieving her msg etc...basic idea is to gauge her interest level in order to lower urs so that it is same level or even better less....sigh wish i knew this stuff back in my teens lol

I noticed this, and at some level knew it was true, but I wouldn't have been able to lay it out this clearly. Good post.

A couple other guidelines I'll submit:

(1) NEVER write more than she did. For instance on email, if she writes two paragraphs, you write one. If she sends four sentences, you send two or three.

... this might be getting too abstract, but I think this creates the implication that YOUR time spent emailing her is worth more than HER time spent emailing you. You're adding value to yourself.

(2) Don't feel like you have to ask her a question in each communication. I used to do this because I thought it would "guilt" her into replying in order to answer my question(s). Sometimes I'd send a girl four questions in one email. This is textbook AFC behavior!!!

...A much better tactic is to make (cute/funny) misinterpretations, tease her, challenge her, or just be vague about juicy/important details of interesting topics (refer back to point 1).