"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick tip for the first kiss

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm

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Themanthatcan said:
Any tips on how to transition better from a normal kiss to some tounge?
More lip movement, slightly harder pressure, lick her lips a little, dont force it, go with the flow.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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I wont lie, this is a dominant, direct move and probably wont work with all girls.

however, in a society of wimpy guys ASKING for kisses, an aggressive move might be just what the doctor ordered.
 

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Don't ask her.. Just look into her eyes, lift her lips up to yours by her chin, slowly go in, close your eyes, and kiss her... That simple. If she doesn't like it, she'll just turn her head..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tyler's Triangular gazing is by far the best way to kiss girls because it is natural and can be done real quickly.

My other favorite is the rate your kiss routine. (I now only use this to spice things up instead of doing the basic gazing)

I've did triangular gazing on my brother before I tried it on a girl (No i didn't kiss my brother) and he called me gay because I guess from doing it he could feel the gayness.
 
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