ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
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Yeah, we know you're just b!tching right now. It's not fair I know. =(
Awww!
Awww!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Quick replies I'm at work live and HOT girl sat in my seat
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There have been a few times I've been afraid to say anything to girls that are in my work area, not my office but surrounding buildings, who I see walking around and stuff. If you don't make SOME kind of impression, it can be pretty awkward man. Then you'll wish you had just blurted out a "hi my name is (...) how are you" and just did your best.
Next time this happens be friendly and say, "hey how's it goin".
Pretend she's a dude if you have to.
Women do not have super powers!
Next time this happens be friendly and say, "hey how's it goin".
Pretend she's a dude if you have to.
Women do not have super powers!
Look man people are not stupid we all know you wanted talk to her otherwise you would not have asked urgent advice on what to say. Do not try to justify your failure now by passing yourself off as some kind of ladies man who intentionally ignores women. You wanted to talk to her, you went as far as to ask us what to say to her but in the end you backed out. We know this because I am sure all of us here have had similar experiences. Women like me so man up and admit you were afraid until you can admit your failures you can never grow. Just don't come on here all hard faced and give us some **** and bull story about intentionally ignoring her and being approached by women you ignore. Here is something to ponder when you lay down to get yourself off today, if you had the balls to approach maybe it would be her mouth around your **** not your hand.
By the way concentrating on making money is no reason not to get laid. Getting laid helps you concentrate on making money, in the past few years I have slept with over 70 women and become very successful in business. I hardly for more than 1 week per month and I predict by years end I will be worth over one million dollars. I done this whilst getting laid so you can do it too....
By the way concentrating on making money is no reason not to get laid. Getting laid helps you concentrate on making money, in the past few years I have slept with over 70 women and become very successful in business. I hardly for more than 1 week per month and I predict by years end I will be worth over one million dollars. I done this whilst getting laid so you can do it too....
Wow, I know this whole situation passed by yesterday (without you saying a word probably 
) but it's actually quite upsetting to me to see something like this that mirrored my old b1tch self so much.
What is our society coming to that people (not just you) are too afraid to even START a conversation with an attractive girl? I used to be the exact same way with the exact same mindset, "I know I'M hot as hell, so if she wants me she has to approach me."
Guess how many numbers/hookups/ANYTHING I had with that mindset...0
It all comes down to the fact that you were intimidated by her and the fact that you didn't think you were going to say the right things, when in reality she is just as scared as you and it doesn't really matter what you say as long as you convey yourself confidently.
Next time this happens and you start to think you just can't do it, take a feel around in your pants and make sure you have your friggin balls, and just start a conversation, YOUR THE MAN! THAT IS YOUR JOB!
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) but it's actually quite upsetting to me to see something like this that mirrored my old b1tch self so much.What is our society coming to that people (not just you) are too afraid to even START a conversation with an attractive girl? I used to be the exact same way with the exact same mindset, "I know I'M hot as hell, so if she wants me she has to approach me."
Guess how many numbers/hookups/ANYTHING I had with that mindset...0
It all comes down to the fact that you were intimidated by her and the fact that you didn't think you were going to say the right things, when in reality she is just as scared as you and it doesn't really matter what you say as long as you convey yourself confidently.
Next time this happens and you start to think you just can't do it, take a feel around in your pants and make sure you have your friggin balls, and just start a conversation, YOUR THE MAN! THAT IS YOUR JOB!
/rant:cuss:
I'm with Touchout. THat's why there is the 3 second rule man, you should've approached her the minute you saw her in your chair. Opener, "You're in my chair". How hard is that?
Life just put a hot chick in your chair and you didn't talk to her. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
Life just put a hot chick in your chair and you didn't talk to her. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.