"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quick replies I'm at work live and HOT girl sat in my seat

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Ok so this is the scenario as we speak I com to work and I see a girl seating in my chair, now she's new from another department so she doesn't know. Its been like a hour, and I caught her taking quick looks at me and so did she, lol its a weird situation, iwe can both tell that we wana talk to each other but noone is making the first move to say something and break the ice.

Quick advice in what I can tell her so we can start talking, I'm seating right next to her, I heared her talk to a friend and she leaving at 4.
Lol she just took another peep at me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cmon man....Just say," Hey are you new here? Whats your name?" LMAO......Its not brain surgery. Just say anything to start a conversation. The rest will follow.
 

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Lol dang I can't, this ego bs I want her to say somethin first anything! Lol dang she's hot
 

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How about, "hey, you're in my seat"

edit: I just noticed your signature...have you seen it? I think you should read it over again yourself. A-Unit is right.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yup I read it many times to be honest with yall iv been in this mode of not talking to any female at all unless she is a dime piece, I'm not making excuses, but I'm just concentrating about my money, fuk all this females cus 98% og them all just want attention.

But yeah she still next to me, and I'm straight up ignoring her, she even got up and sat back down stretch her arms all the way to the side to fix her hair, but she won't say the first word...lol ima see how far she can go to get my attention
 

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damn you know your in trouble when you can't approch a girl at work.. lol that's all i do everyday with ANY job i've EVER had.. hit up the ladies that work there. Old, Young, Hot, ugly didn't matter

maybe that's why AT WORK i always get the player stamp

i'd play flirt with almost every young chick at the job i'd happen to be at.
 

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Nah fuk her ima show her that I really don't have to holler at her, cus I know that that's what she wants.
Attention das all she wants, plus she works with me so she is just as broke
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude grab your balls and at least introduce yourself. If you ever wanna have a chance with her you have to get on her radar somehow. LOL.....
 

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Lol dang I can't
Nah fuk her ima show her that I really don't have to holler at her, cus I know that that's what she wants.
Attention das all she wants
WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS WUSS

how do you know she only wants attention?? Theres no hope for you, why are you even on this site asking for advice if you are not going to use it??
 

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You don't talk to her she loses intrest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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just so suave said:
why are you even on this site asking for advice if you are not going to use it??
Good point. Are you an attention ho?
 

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I would have walked up to her with a confident smile and said "you are in my chair" then told her not to worry about getting up.

Looks like you blew it, ignoring her wont get you in her pants it will get your own hand down yours tonight as you sit alone wondering how sweet her pu*sy would have tasted.

As far as money goes it is easier to make money when you are getting laid. Take it from me I am about to hit the million dollar net worth mark and I have slept with over 70 women. Stop making ****ing excuses and be a man.
 

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Wow.


What real man sits back and lets the woman take control?

Edit: Or should I say WAITING for her to take control?
 

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Plain & Simple said:
Yup I read it many times to be honest with yall iv been in this mode of not talking to any female at all unless she is a dime piece, I'm not making excuses, but I'm just concentrating about my money, fuk all this females cus 98% og them all just want attention.

But yeah she still next to me, and I'm straight up ignoring her, she even got up and sat back down stretch her arms all the way to the side to fix her hair, but she won't say the first word...lol ima see how far she can go to get my attention
lmao this is too funny. Either way you put it you're going to have to get passed this. Whether you focus on money or not. If you want to have choice you're going to have to go through the process.

You're just rationalizing why you shouldn't approach. Saying all they want is attention. When you strip away the social conditioning all she wants is some cool guy to give her some good sex.

You ignoring doesn't solve anything. What is she going to do cry? Either way in the long run some confident guy will approach her and give her some good sex. Meanwhile you're thinking back on this girl you found attracted but was scared to approach.

You not approaching, in her eyes make you seem scared and not confident. The longer you take the more value your losing. Do you think high value dudes wait for the perfect chance to approach? or sits there trying to work up their courage to approach? I don't think so
 

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Im not gonna argue at all i know im not scare to approach if anything im tired of approaching and meeting stuck up girls that think that they are too cute, those are the ones that i ignore to show them that they aint worth my time approaching.

Trust me ive done that to a few dimes and they ended up approaching me, but everyone has their views.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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