Quick Reminder: Stop being a pu$$y

[Oxide]

How long would you wait for a girl to give it up?

For me, i will not wait more than 2-3 weeks. (usually 2-4

dates). I want sex, and if i am not getting any from a girl, i

will not wait around.

Pook used to say "Embrace Your Sexuality!" however most guys

read this and say "yeah... ok ill try" and fail. They fail

becuase they can't become sexual just by reading those lines.

Gunwitch labels it as "Sexual state", and this is one of the

biggest things that needs to be present in order to get the

girl.

Here is some stuff you must practice until it becomes natural:

When you meet a girl, you EXPECT to have sex with her. You

dont wish for it, YOU EXPECT IT. I dont know why guys still

stick around for months without getting ANYTHING in return.
This one is REAL big. I myself would be too afriad to expect it from girls i have just met, while my buddy would be getting head at the same time from her friend.

You are never scared to initate the sexual state. You are the

one who has to start Kinoing her. Dont wait for her to do it,

she will LJBF you and find someone else to fvck her brains

out.

You dont give a sh1t what nice family she came from, that she

goes to cathlic all girls school and has a 4.0 GPA. She is a

woman, you are a man.. both of you are sexual creatures.

If you dont get from her within the time you expect to get it

(providing you tried) it is time to move on. She might be miss

America, but if she wants to get married before hand, you

walk.

Usually guys take LONGER than they need to before moving in

for sexual stuff. Guys think they have to "warm her up" when

she is already on fire.


Rememeber, sex isnt something AMAZING HOLY GRAIL. Sex is sex,

and should be approached as a part of life that is there. You

are used to it, you expect it, you get it or move on to

someone else.

The guys who are successful with women hold this stuff true in

their heart, that is why they end up with gorgeous girls while

you end up with your right hand.

I once was talking to 3 girls about sex and realtionships. One

of them said.. "Well, me and Josh have known each other for 5

months now.. but i would never have sex with him"

I asked her who Josh was.. and she said "My boyfriend"

Go for it, start getting laid today, it is not a DREAM, it is reality that awaits you.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I got some questions, and im prolly gonna make another topic. Before my main intention wasnt sex, but an actual relationship(ya...wierd huh?) sex would've been great, but now, the girl that iam trying to game(i talk to her often on campus), seems to be like an attention *****, and im slowly starting to realize being in a relationship wouldnt be all that great with her. So now im trying to salvage a fvck buddy kinda thing. I've initiated some kino, and she's made some low-key sexual comments. Like calling me differnt kinda names, Im new to the kino thing, but we've both kino'd each other a few times now. I admit, i've been a pvssy in waiting so long to ask her out, but how do i send the msg or whats the next step for me, so I can initiate this fvck buddy thing? I sure could work on my sex jokes/comments.

 

[gargamel]

I need advice

I agree with the thread starter - but what if she is a virgin???

She turned me down for sex twice and we're dating for a month now. Usually I'd just NEXT her, but I'm having a great realtionship with this one and we really click - I'd think for a week before ditching this one..

HER REASON WAS: "I'm the kind of person who gets tired and bored with things very fast! I didn't want to have sex cause I want to keep things interesting for a while..."
So basically she's sayin - I'm definitly gonna put out, but not just yet. She's always been VERY honest with me, so I know she ain't playin games with me.

I just didn't fvckin know what to answer - I just made fun of THE WAY she said it, we had a laugh, but I didn't reply to the statement.

I'm OK with waiting for a while. It builds up the suspense. She is a virgin, so she doesn't really know how great sex could be, so I can kinda cut her some slack, huh? Like, wait till she's ready?

Tell me what you would do?

 

[BrotherAP]

Hmmm... the last time a woman told me that, I had sex with her the next day. She's a virgin, so she's probably just bit afraid 'cuz it's uncharted territory. I'd interpret what she said as ******** for "I want you to seduce me, because I'm too nervous to make that decision on my own"

 

[xblitz44x]

Neat post for the most part, Oxide.

It always depends on what you want. What you want isn't right or wrong. What *she* wants isn't right or wrong. If you want sex, and she wants to wait for a relationship, don't compramise what you want; chalk it up as a conflict of interest and find another girl that might want the same thing that you do.

On the other side of the coin, in you're having a great time with her, and sex isn't numero uno, then you can wait and enjoy the relationship for what it is first.

It always depends on what the both of you want. The closer your expectations match, the more success and less frustration you'll experience.

 

[gargamel]

Originally posted by BrotherAP
I'd interpret what she said as ******** for "I want you to seduce me, because I'm too nervous to make that decision on my own"

Maybe. But there's one little problem - I got her topless TWICE and had GREAT action there, got her worked up to the point where I could feel her jeans being wet between her legs! But every time i grabbed that belt she took my hands off it. She's pretty straightforward about the stuff she doesn't want be done to her..

 

[Oxide]

She is saying she will get bored with sex fast? Are you kidding me? That is virgin talk, she is going to love it once she gets an orgasm... have you gone down on her?


Its your call, with virgins it is a best idea to take things a little slower.. but you must be progressing...

 

[gargamel]

Not yet. She's keeping that damn belt on all the time. She won't even get naked with me - I don't like it, b/c that way she is in control..

Things are progressing, but very slowly. We were making out in a park few days ago - she had a skirt on! I gave her some finger action very close too her pvssy, teasing her.. She was very cold at start, but she started enjoying it after a while.. and then her fvcking phone rang!!!!

After watching her reactions to my caressing her, it seems to me she has VERY few erogenous zones.. Hope that has something to do with her not having sex yet..

Any thoughts on that?

 

[nonstop]

sounds like she might be scared of loosing control or of showing you her naked body? or both.

keep teasing her.

when making out in your room keep it dark.

 

[Zhen]

maybe...

she has a penis