"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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quick reassessment of friend's little sister

Chamber36

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Ok now I am not too worried about this girl, I started to think she may be in love with me, but now I'm not so sure.

I read in The Art of Macking that shy girls may be shy because they don't want you to find out about their slutty ways.

I wouldn't be surprised if she was slutty. Her brother was telling this hilarious story how she was having trouble walking because some moroccan guy fvcke her. I didn't really care much. I heard some gossip from my friend who works with her and he claims that she is fvcking another colleague of theirs. Nothing concrete though.

On top of that her brother is a big time player. I am thinking she is a female player. I don't think she's a slut, but I think she's a freak.

Now she only started really showing interest to me after I approached her in the supermarket and asked her where the hotdogs were. I saw her there all the time, but I think she likes my bad boy image.

Anyway, as I was having some fun at the bar, she approaches, buys me a drink, mentions a birthday, I give her my number and she sends me a sweet text when she gets home. I never texted her or called her since but she sees me at work often and she's always one of the last to leave. It's been october since then and she's still showing interest.

Here are the last 3 times I saw her:

2.5 weeks back I saw her she was working without make-up and laughing INCREDIBLY nervously. I just said trivial chit-chat to calm her down, but kept that to a minimum. Then i went home. She was acting really reactive and stuff and real interested in where I spent my saturday night because I wasn't at work.

Then I saw her with my friend a week later. He's been trying to mack on her from the AFC angle for the past few years, lol. He got arrested the night before for harassing the doorman, my colleague. So she tells him jokingly, while we stand by the register that he has to grow up. I watch her like WTF, and I realise, oh she meant to imply that I am grown up in contrast to him.

And that's very surprising to me. She's only 18. Still relatively new to the game.

So I guess dynamically speaking we often visit each other at work. I never make any bullcrap chit-chat though. But she DOES with me. She's always so dam nervous though. A good sign.

A question for all you master Don Juans, how do you think I should approach this kitty? I think this calls for a real slow sexual seduction. We've both been taking our time. This should get hot and steamy but I wouldn't mind gettin my freak on with her within the next few weeks.

I think the best route to take would be to really start to amp up the sexual conversation. Kino shouldn't be a problem I can touch her ass if I want.

She's often nervous around me though so conversations don't get very far.

I guess I'll just have to talk to her for a few minutes and when the conversation goes stale just go for the make-out eh...

She's the kind of girl who looks at you with big eyes and a big smile looking for your assurance. It's pretty nice really, for a guy like me. She's pretty easygoing as well, doesn't talk too much, just smiles and laughs a lot.

Now last time I saw her she was working and all I did was just say hi and walk by. I was considering walking towards her for a little 2 minute chit-chat, but I decided not to. I realise now that that is an essential part of the dynamic between me and her. I don't think she realises this, but thanks to me doing research I'm getting a hang of it. I concentrate on shopping when I shop and work when I work. So she usually has to try to get my attention.

I think the most important thing to keep in mind with her is a don't-take-no-**** mentality. Her strength is that she's attractive and charming, her weakness is that she's a little socially oblivious, which I can take advantage of simply by acting Alpha.

I guess in order for this to work I'll have to keep it 100% alpha. I don't want to start spending any money on her. She spends her money on me.

The most important thing for me to work on would be my grooming, my studying and my working out. As long as I do those 3 my game will be sharp.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nice bro! ur well on ur way 2 the bone zone now :rockon:

ur bros lil sis is prob so on fire 4 u 2 get the wild thang on :cool:

my bro had a lil sis like that she was a dawg in the sack if u no what i mean :yes:

u just gotta keep up ur ALPHA so dont let her think u r week! maybe put on a gun show when she sees u thatll get her goin :kick:
 

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If you respect your bro, and your "broship" - don't fcuk his sister.

End of story.

If your friend is a big player, why the hell aren't you learning from him, and getting other women? That's gonna pay much greater dividends in the long run, then getting some sleazy, easy a$$ from his little sister.

And hate to break it to you, girls that are freaks, are sluts too. In fact, I'd wager that every single girl has two skeletons in her closet, at least.

A bona-fide "Alpha" (Generic Term to refer to men of high character, confidence, and status) doesn't need to take advantage of women: his lifestyle, his frame and the dictates of his conscience are what attract women.

Rather than playing a part, try being the part.

Wasting money on women is inadvisable, but if you dig a girl, why wouldn't you spend money to enjoy yourselves?

Personally, if you tried to get with my little sister, I'd hurt you, badly.

However, if you're dedicated to this pursuit, why the hell would you wait? You don't negotiate sex and attraction. Either make it happen or move on.
 

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Rhoto said:
If you respect your bro, and your "broship" - don't fcuk his sister.
He gave me persmission.
If your friend is a big player, why the hell aren't you learning from him, and getting other women?
I already been out sarging with him plenty of times and he's not a good wingman, though he does understand game and dynamics.
That's gonna pay much greater dividends in the long run, then getting some sleazy, easy a$$ from his little sister.
On the contrary, if I go sarging with him I'll get sleazy a$$. His little sister, I'm sort of hoping to make into my bottom *****. I wouldn't spend much time with a girl unless I was wearing the pants, which she gladly will allow.
And hate to break it to you, girls that are freaks, are sluts too. In fact, I'd wager that every single girl has two skeletons in her closet, at least.
should I be worried about that? I don't think it really makes a difference for me. It's just an advantage really that she might think I'll lose interest. So I'll just have to act a little unsure about whether I really like her and keep her qualifying herself to me.
A bona-fide "Alpha" (Generic Term to refer to men of high character, confidence, and status) doesn't need to take advantage of women: his lifestyle, his frame and the dictates of his conscience are what attract women.
Same for me.
Rather than playing a part, try being the part.
That's why I am here trying to understand the essentials of game and integrate it into my way of thinking. Just because I'm consciously analyzing moves to make doesn't mean I'm playing parts. I am me.
Wasting money on women is inadvisable, but if you dig a girl, why wouldn't you spend money to enjoy yourselves?
For psychological reasons. If I pay her(with a drink) before I get a make-out she will expect more from me. If she pays me before we make out, she might give me more stuff in order to get freaky with me in the future. It's just how I want to establish the dynamic.
Personally, if you tried to get with my little sister, I'd hurt you, badly.
Why?
However, if you're dedicated to this pursuit, why the hell would you wait? You don't negotiate sex and attraction. Either make it happen or move on.
The attraction is there. I am trying to figure out how I can make sex happen and any advice would be appreciated.

My plan of action was to just keep myself looking sharp, use some sexual innuendo's, maybe get her talkin about something that interests her a lot, and then go for the make-out. The only problem is that I can't think of anything that she particularly likes. She doesn't seem to have anything she's passionate about so I dunno what I'm gonna talk about to get her into a comfortable mood.
 
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