Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BongDuy

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1)when approaching a mixed set (male and female ) should you ALWAYS ignore your target? or is it okay to just start the convo with her after greeting everyone?

2) When you introduce yourself and get the girls number, do you ever give them a hug or just walk away and wave goodbye?

3) Rate my opener i plan to use on strangers ( mostly highschool girls, since im in HS )

me: hey i was just wondering, do you guys believe in magic?
girl: sure/yes
me: give me your hands
*hold my hands out facing* this is where i judge their interests according to their hand position compared to mine and whether they follow my hands when i lower them ( i saw it on a seminar from spear ) If she doesnt follow my hands when i lower them, i politely slap her hands off and say " ahh forget it." pause and say " **** it, lets try again"

me: " think of a number between 1 through 10"
then while im holding their hands, i kinda get a feeling of their hand, like kinda just moving my fingers around get some kino going.

ill say "7"

if i am wrong, even better. I can say " well you're different from other girls. most other girls are bad sports but you're alright"
then give them a highfive followed by a " hey you seem really cool. give me your number and ill call you sometime"

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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trent81

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1 who gives a ****, talk to everybody
2 if she hugs I hug, if not I say "gotta go, call you some time"
3 heres a better opener " you are fuvking gorgeous! What's your name sweetheart? I'm ------ So, are you single, no boyfriend? Don't fuvkin lie to me. Alright, well give me your number so we can go hang out sometime.

Magic shows are for queers.
 

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BongDuy said:
1)when approaching a mixed set (male and female ) should you ALWAYS ignore your target? or is it okay to just start the convo with her after greeting everyone?
Yes, it's fine to do that. Just don't pile 100% of your attention on her.

me: hey i was just wondering, do you guys believe in magic?
girl: sure/yes
me: give me your hands
*hold my hands out facing* this is where i judge their interests according to their hand position compared to mine and whether they follow my hands when i lower them ( i saw it on a seminar from spear ) If she doesnt follow my hands when i lower them, i politely slap her hands off and say " ahh forget it." pause and say " **** it, lets try again"

me: " think of a number between 1 through 10"
then while im holding their hands, i kinda get a feeling of their hand, like kinda just moving my fingers around get some kino going.

ill say "7"

if i am wrong, even better. I can say " well you're different from other girls. most other girls are bad sports but you're alright"
then give them a highfive followed by a " hey you seem really cool. give me your number and ill call you sometime"

Rate this 1-10? :D
This is straight from the Mystery Method. It was on TV. You really don't want to use canned lines like these. They're just too corny, and it's too likely that they've heard them before or seen them used on TV.
 
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