"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how should I respond to this. I went to a show and saw this chick who I know a little bit. she sent me a comment on myspace:


(my name) :]
the show was amazing,
i liked seeing you :]
even tho I was a dumb****& didnt even remember,
which is always like me, gadddd.
well you should go to TP on the 22nd I think?
yes yes id love to see you. :]


first of all, I don't want to screw up with this chick and frankly don't know how to respond to this without being afc(actually I just want an example). second of all I have no idea what TP is. :(

this is pretty simple, but I just want to get an idea of what to say to chicks when they're hard on themselves.

this is the kind of chick that everybody always compliments about how pretty she is.

help me. I'm to lazzzy to searchhhhhhhh.

godspeed.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Step-by-step.

(my name) :]
the show was amazing,
i liked seeing you :]
even tho I was a dumb****& didnt even remember,
which is always like me, gadddd.
well you should go to TP on the 22nd I think?
yes yes id love to see you. :]
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I see interest! Dude I think you got her on the palm of your hand. Now it just depends on how you pull it off, but you shouldn't worry. Take her out somewhere fun!

With this I'd use some C&F.
"Hahaha don't call yourself that. I tend to lose interest in girls who aren't confident about their self-image." or something iono.

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first of all, I don't want to screw up with this chick and frankly don't know how to respond to this without being afc(actually I just want an example). second of all I have no idea what TP is.
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Chill out. Don't worry about screwing up and trying to achieve perfection, because you'll simply put pressure on yourself...and you'll screw up. Just walk in with no motives and desires, just have fun and unleash your DJ.

Call her and talk to her about what TP is or something and plan out your date right then and there after a little bit of chit-chat, you know? If she doesnt answer, give her a reason to call you back by telling her to explain what TP is.

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this is pretty simple, but I just want to get an idea of what to say to chicks when they're hard on themselves.

this is the kind of chick that everybody always compliments about how pretty she is.
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This is what I consider the perfect example of a HB who is full of insecurity! she's hot, she knows it, but everyone...especially the dudes...compliments her on what she knows already. Be the unique one and use some good C&F, but be careful. Don't INSULT! There's a fine line between C&F and insulting.

i hope this helped.
 

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Originally posted by j8snx1
Step-by-step.

(my name) :]
the show was amazing,
i liked seeing you :]
even tho I was a dumb****& didnt even remember,
which is always like me, gadddd.
well you should go to TP on the 22nd I think?
yes yes id love to see you. :]
==============================================
I see interest! Dude I think you got her on the palm of your hand. Now it just depends on how you pull it off, but you shouldn't worry. Take her out somewhere fun!

With this I'd use some C&F.
"Hahaha don't call yourself that. I tend to lose interest in girls who aren't confident about their self-image." or something iono.

==============================================
first of all, I don't want to screw up with this chick and frankly don't know how to respond to this without being afc(actually I just want an example). second of all I have no idea what TP is.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Chill out. Don't worry about screwing up and trying to achieve perfection, because you'll simply put pressure on yourself...and you'll screw up. Just walk in with no motives and desires, just have fun and unleash your DJ.

Call her and talk to her about what TP is or something and plan out your date right then and there after a little bit of chit-chat, you know? If she doesnt answer, give her a reason to call you back by telling her to explain what TP is.

==============================================
this is pretty simple, but I just want to get an idea of what to say to chicks when they're hard on themselves.

this is the kind of chick that everybody always compliments about how pretty she is.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
This is what I consider the perfect example of a HB who is full of insecurity! she's hot, she knows it, but everyone...especially the dudes...compliments her on what she knows already. Be the unique one and use some good C&F, but be careful. Don't INSULT! There's a fine line between C&F and insulting.

i hope this helped.

yeah pretty helpful.
but I already answered her haha.

apparently TP is a band lol. and a pvssy band at that heh. but I'm gonna go with her to a concert on friday. Any good tips on how to get interest at a concert? heh
 
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