"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When is it the best time to go for a kiss?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dukester

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honestly dude. does it really matter. NO
you go w/ your gut.
kiss when you think it's appropriate, and if it fails, try again at another time. If it dont work then, then Next!
 

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I should have quoted your post, so it could not be edited.

Anyways, now that you rephrase that question I do either
- Kiss very soon to shock her. Best if isolated somewhat.
- Kiss after raising her IL and talking about getting physical.

Stop hesitating and go forward.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wiesman44

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Its a shame that people have to post ridiculous threads like this. Honestly bro, I'm sure if you think hard enough, you'll know when the right time to kiss is. No need to post garbage like this.
 

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LOL ok

I was just wondering what other people do ya know. I do go on my gut.

i know im probably the biggest AFC ever...but from wot ive read its how u act not how u look, i'm not fronting, but recently my friends have been honest with me and told me about all the gurls i could have had, but because of my mind frame and the way i think, I got maybe 2 when i could have 10? ya feel.

I'm not full of cofidence. Now i think of it this was stupid..

my bad
 

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dont worry man, we were all like that in the beginning. Something i found that helped when i was very nervous was look for the signs, like biting the bottom lips, head moving in with mouth slightly ajar, eyes shut, her trying to isolate you.

But isolation is key, get her alone, even if its only in a cocoon world between you 2.
 

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I NEVER GO FOR THE KISS
A man doesn't need to kiss. Women need to kiss. Kissing is for girls. :)

in fact lately I've been avoiding kissing. I actually can't stand it anyway. I tell the girls that I only kiss if I have strong feelings for her.

When I make out with them they try to sneak a kiss in . it is just so funny.

my advice to you is NOT TO KISS HER! when the woman wants to be kissed it will be totally obvious to you. You won't have to guys.

If you tell her that you don't just kiss for the sake of it. she will think that you are a VERY different then all the other guys and she will want you so bad because of it.



if however, you feel like kissing her be sure make eye contact with her and then look at her lips. if she does the same then you can kiss her.
 

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^^^thanks JSH and kev, appreciated alot
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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