Quick Question

[Walking Anomaly]

Ive read that doing things such as complimenting too often and such is supplicating, but if it is supplicating, how would you go about making a girl feel good about herself?

Are the key words in my question "too often"?
Also, what are some other ways of making a girl feel good about herself besides complimenting every so often?

Just thought id ask. Don't know if this has been gone over or what, but help is appreciated.


The only stupid question is one that is not asked. ~ me, i think

 

[LikRetsam]

Complement her when it's right to. Say she looks exceptionally good today. Do not go throwing a complement left or right.

Remember to keep it in context. It's not what you say but how you say it.

 

[MidwestFreek]

like above..only ill elaborate a little bit...
say this girl is hot...chances are she hears it a bit...so tellin her everyday that shes"pretty' or 'beautiful'...its gonna get annoyin to her...so a day that she looks AMAZING...like some girls dress in somethin real nice one day...and u like it...tell her...a well spoken comment can make a girls day...take for example somethin i've done..theres this girl meg...shes hot..she knows it...one day she comes to school...lookin real fancy...real hot..just...oh man...she walks by..gives a simple "hey" n keeps walkin...so im like "hey meg come here..." so she walks back n we talk for a minute or so..as i go to leave i just tell her "meg, youre lookin great today..very..elegant" smile..and walk off...left her with a huge smile..she ims me later that day and tells me that my comment definitely made her day...i dont give out compliments too often..n when i do..theyre sincere and girls know it...thats how u make them feel good about themselves...but dont just be like "youre pretty"....thats unobservant...wow...theyll think ur just some chump who cant think of nething...take note of what theyre wearing...is their hair different? something other than an attribute they cant control..complimenting somethin agirl wears..or does...is complimenting HER..not her genes

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Any other responses?

Again any help is appreciated.


The only stupid question is one that is not asked. ~me, i think

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

Not what you say, not how you say it... that's like, 10% of it.

It's WHEN you say it.
Timing is everything.

Also be careful not to compliment her around her friends, she may feel embarassed... you'll get the vibe of the lady...

BBB

 

[Walking Anomaly]

I see, BBB. If its "When" you say it, what would be some examples of when it would be a good time to give one?

Help appreciated...again


The only Stupid Question is one that is not asked. ~me, i think

 

[LikRetsam]

When? When the time is right. No one on this board will tell you when that is. You will KNOW. Trust yourself. It's not that god damn hard. You arn't going to complement a chick on a D at match but prolly will on her first A+.

That simple.

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Complement her when it's right to. Say she looks exceptionally good today. Do not go throwing a complement left or right.

Remember to keep it in context. It's not what you say but how you say it.

jesus is lik not flamin a n00b or tellin them to go and use the search button (or are you startin to hold to your promise), what happened to the reksam we know and love.

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

Originally posted by Walking Anomaly
I see, BBB. If its "When" you say it, what would be some examples of when it would be a good time to give one?

Help appreciated...again


The only Stupid Question is one that is not asked. ~me, i think

Whenever she's sad, or not in a very nice mood.

If she's all excited and you compliment her, she'll go: okay thanks!

But, if she had a tough day, bad grades, fight with her friends/parents, pms , it's a good time. Just don't overdo it to come off as a fake.


The only stupid is answer is that,,, hum.. oh.. aw well nevermind!


BBB